Recently I heard a new term, which refreshed my three views, called Marriage . In other words, they need to get married, and then they can't find a more suitable candidate, so they make do with each other, get married, get married, live together, and don't interfere with each other. Buying a house and raising children is also a system AA system.
really recommends that you don't do this because it is not responsible for yourself and your children. Because some of the children's initial outlook on life, values and even marriage come from their relationship with their parents.
When he sees that his parents have no emotional relationship since childhood, he will have many negative effects on him, including his definition of happiness, which can be imagined.
Moreover, if there is no intimate relationship between husband and wife, not only to children, but also to themselves, think about it, when you are tired, you always want someone to rely on, even if the other party just comforts you. Instead of facing someone who only asks you, you should buy rice this week, and the water and electricity bills this month, our child’s milk powder should be released this month.
You should understand that from the perspective of Maslow's psychology, everyone pursues a sense of security after meeting material needs. Before you get married, your sense of security comes from your parents. After marriage, your sense of security comes from your partner. If you are married to make do with and get married, rather than carefully searching for your partner and managing intimacy, your heart is dry and barren, not nourished and cared for. This kind of life is both boring and meaningless!
