Many parents suddenly hear their children say something swearing, and usually have the following reactions: one is shock, the other is beating, scolding, intimidation and threats. But through the psychological [White Bear Effect], it is found that the more you stop, the more you

Many parents suddenly hear their children say something swearing, and usually have the following reactions:

One is shock, the other is beating, scolding, intimidation and threats.

But through the psychology of [White Bear Effect], the more you stop, the more you stop, the more you are, the more curious the child is, and may even say it quietly in private.

So it is important to boot correctly! When we face children's swearing, we might as well take the opportunity to establish the correct concept of right and wrong for children. Try doing this:

1. If the child just simply thinks it is fun

When the child imitates others' swearing, he really just thinks it is fun.

So we must stabilize our emotions and say the correct way of expression to deepen our children's memory of good things.

For example, if a child occasionally says "Damn!", you can say this:

"Mom heard you say a new word, it's fun to try new words.

But we can't say this in normal times, because it's very rude .

We can use words like "Wow, that's great".

instead.

2. Do you say swear to express your feelings?

Some children can't express their feelings yet, and can only use words that they know only.

So the important thing is not to completely stop them, but to find a way to express their feelings.

For example, when a child calls someone a fool, we can say this :

"You are very angry now, are you? But that's not good. You don’t have to use swear words to curse people. You can say that he is as lazy as sloth and as round as a panda.

If you are still very angry, your mother will take you to run, kick the mud, and release your bad temper!"

3. Children have become a habit of swearing and swearing.

This reverse parenting trick has been tried and done!

We can work with our children to formulate rules that do not swearing, and at the same time let children take on the role of supervising adults. Believe me, children will gradually learn to restrain themselves in the process of supervising adults.

The above is the article I brought to you today. If it is helpful for educating children, please share it with other friends in need. We grow together on the road of educating children!

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