The little nephew is two and a half years old, but he is not very good at speaking. He can only simply say "Dad", "Mom", "Birds", "Birds", and "Borns" and "Borns". When he is anxious, he can't speak and can only scream. My cousin originally wanted to wait for her nephew to send him to kindergarten when she was three years old so that she could go out to work.
But my cousin said she took her children to several kindergartens to see them, and people rejected her on the grounds that "the child is still young." In fact, my cousin knew in her heart that it was because the child could not speak and could not express what he wanted. The kindergarten was afraid of trouble, so she didn't want to accept it.
When talking about the child’s speech problem, my cousin is full of bitterness. She said that the child has inherited nothing, and it is this speech problem that has inherited himself.
What's going on?
It turns out that my cousin has had a nickname called "Men Hulu" since he was a child. My cousin spoke late when she was young, and she didn't speak until she was over four years old. At that time, our whole family thought that my cousin was mute. Originally, the family was not in good condition, so I never thought that I would take my cousin to see the doctor and call her "little mute".
Even though my cousin could speak later, she had poor expression skills and did not like to speak, so she had the nickname "典典". This has led to my cousin becoming less and less talkative and keeping everything in her heart. So adults don’t know what my cousin is thinking and what she needs. But my cousin felt that the adults didn't care about her at all.
Later, my cousin grew up and gradually realized the difficulty of adults. But I didn't expect that my child was like me, who was over two years old and didn't know how to speak very much, and inherited the problem of speaking late.
I comforted my cousin and said that although the child’s speaking ability may be affected by genetic influence, the development of each child is different. Moreover, the conditions are better now, and parents also have time to accompany their children. As long as the correct method is adopted, the baby can stimulate his or her to speak more.
Children are already able to speak simple words, which means that the child has the ability to speak, allowing the child to master more vocabulary and express his ideas fluently. It is only a matter of time.
So how can we provide strong stimulation for children’s speech? I gave my cousin a suggestion: is to talk more with the child, and to take care of the child more items and accumulate the child's vocabulary.
In other words, if you want your child to learn to speak, speak, and fall in love with expression, on the one hand, you need to communicate more with your child, and on the other hand, you need to let your child accumulate vocabulary. Only by doing two aspects together can the best results be achieved.
Because when my child is learning to speak, I pay special attention to these two aspects, so when my child is over two years old, he can speak a lot of sentences fluently and communicate with us adults normally. A child who loves to talk will definitely be loved by adults.
is just, I remind my cousin that when teaching children to speak, you must pay attention to mastering their learning ability and progress. should choose languages and words that suit children and proceed step by step to achieve good results.
I recommended a picture book for my cousin to learn to speak, which is this set of "Happy Baby Learning to Talk", which is a picture book specially designed for babies under 3 years old to learn to speak. Because most babies can shout "mom and dad" when they are 10 months old, some babies can simply express their thoughts when they are over one year old, and they can say complete sentences when they are two years old.
So if you want your baby to learn to speak and be able to speak, you must give the baby a benign stimulation so that the baby has the opportunity to express himself and the desire to speak, so as to guide the baby to speak.
In this picture book where babies learn to speak, the images of cartoon characters that children like are adopted, which not only attracts the baby's attention, but also stimulates the baby's expression needs. More importantly, through situational simulation, the baby's cognitive ability and accumulates vocabulary.
In this way, when the baby wants to express something, he will not scream, but speak it through his own mouth. Isn’t this an improvement of the baby’s language expression ability?
Let’s see what is in the supermarket? We can first take our baby to meet various small animals: kittens, lambs, pigs, monkeys, etc., and then get to know the items in the supermarket, including bananas, pineapples, grapes, etc.
When teaching the baby to know these items, we can also talk to the baby: Where are the kittens? The baby will point his little finger at the kitten and say: Here, here; what do you want to eat? Banana, Banana, banana,
Through such dialogue, it can not only make the baby familiar with various things, but also improve the baby's understanding ability and exercise the baby's language expression ability.
You can also get to know the items at home with your baby and play games with your parents. If you want your baby to learn to speak and be able to speak, you must grasp the items around you and let the child start with common items and familiar things.
This set of "Happy Baby Learns to Speak" has a total of ten books, which improves the baby's speaking ability from ten aspects: language games, practice onomatopoeia, ask and answer, daily words, interesting words, word expansion, understanding pinyin, learning sentences, three-character songs and reading pictures to tell stories.
The design of these picture books is arranged based on the baby's acceptance ability and learning content, from simple to complex, step by step, allowing the baby to master the vocabulary during the play, opening the door for the child to speak, so that the child no longer bears the burden of "noble people speak late".
We parents must realize that if the baby speaks late, most of the reason is that the baby is not stimulated by language and has no chance to express himself. As long as we give our children a chance, we will give them a possibility of change.
If you have a baby who is learning to speak, don’t forget to prepare a set of “Happy Baby Learn to Talk” for your baby. Let the baby learn to speak by watching stories, let the baby play games and learn to speak, let the baby sing children's songs and learn to speak,
I put the link to this set of “Happy Baby Learn to Talk” below, click to learn more.
