If you want your child to have both IQ and EQ, it is recommended that parents not do the following before their children are three years old. This is good for their children's physical and intellectual development.
First thing: Never chase the child and feed the child
For children, curiosity and exploration are already very important. Once the child is destroyed before the age of three, the child will lose many opportunities and it will be difficult to repair it the day after tomorrow.
So, here I hope parents will not chase after the child to feed the child when he is still young. This behavior can just destroy these three important characteristics of the child.
, especially concentration. If a child has good concentration, he will succeed in everything he does, but after his concentration is destroyed, the child will not only fail to listen to others' words, but also seriously affect his learning ability. And chasing and feeding is a destruction of the child's concentration.
In fact, everyone is born with their ability to eat. Parents cannot underestimate their children's enthusiasm and ability for eating just because their children are young. Therefore, if they let their children eat with their parents, if they do not eat, they can be regarded as not hungry and return the right of their children to their meals to their children.
If you just chase the child to feed the child, the child will be unable to concentrate on eating. After a long time, the child will still feel that eating is a burden, and it will be more troublesome to pick and eat and anorexia in the future.
The second thing: Don’t omit conversations
Many parents are either because they are impatient or busy with work, etc. In short, they always ignore the process of dialogue with their children, which leads to the inability to exercise and cultivate their language skills in the early stage. But the foundation of children's speech and eloquence are cultivated before the age of three. If the child misses this stage, it will lead to defects in the child's language expression ability, and it will also take more time and energy to correct it the day after tomorrow.
So, parents communicate more with their children before they are three years old, communicate more with their children, and give them more opportunities to speak.
The third thing: Don’t spoil
There is now a child, two children, but it is surrounded by four or five adults. Therefore, the status of children is generally relatively high in the family, so all the resources in the family are inclined toward children, so that they reach the level of spoiling. However, the result of parenting in this way will make the children lose their ability to be independent and the opportunity to contact the outside world. Therefore, smart parents will never overprotect their children, or even reach the level of spoiling.
Before the age of three, try to cultivate your children to do their own things as much as possible, otherwise it will be the case for the past three years to destroy the children.
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