Today we will discuss whether children need to be rewarded. In fact, even the most conscious children need to be rewarded, which also confirms that what we said before is required to provide timely feedback.
Psychologist Skinner conducted an experiment, which was called conditioned reflex. It drilled a mouse into the box and contained a pedal. The mouse accidentally stepped on the pedal, and a food 4 fell off. Then the mouse stepped on it again and another physical object came out. The mouse knows one truth: if you want to get food, you should take the initiative to step on the pedal.
Zoo many dolphins performances. In fact, when they finish the performance, we give it some food, such as a piece of fish, and the dolphin does a new action, and they will get more rewards. Then, humans and animals cannot communicate in words, but they can use goals and rewards to let animals listen to human arrangements and plans.
So the same goes for children, because the child has to do a lot of things every day, and something he accidentally does is praised and pays attention to, he will repeat the matter in the future, but if some are strongly warned or stopped, he will also write down the matter in the future and improve his behavior.
The prohibition mentioned here is not the way we often talk about beating and scolding, so how can we prohibit children's behavior? Let the children make rules, and our subsequent articles will continue to discuss this issue in depth.
Behavioral scientists have proved that a person's ability can only exert 20%-30% without being motivated. If fully stimulated, his ability may be exerted to 80%-90%, four times more.
shows whether the child is motivated or not. Whether he has a goal depends mainly on the motivation of parents to understand, and this is also the biggest difference between each family.
people have just been born, and their brains are like a wasteland. This wasteland is full of weeds and even wild fruits, which cannot be used by humans. The entire educational process from birth to growth is how to effectively develop this wasteland, eliminate unnecessary things, and plant what needs are needed. This is the main purpose of education, and educating children requires the wisdom of parents.
We basically cannot see a low-level parent who can raise excellent children by spending money alone. Many parents keep spending money on their children. The biggest benefit is to get spiritual comfort, because when one day when the child grows up, if nothing is achieved, parents can say that I spent a lot of money for you back then, buy whatever you want, and attend any tutoring classes, etc. In fact, they are all getting their own psychological comfort, and at the same time shirking their responsibilities. Parents who are truly responsible to their children are not just spending money, but should also learn to improve their own level and wisdom for their children.
Regarding how to stimulate children more effectively, whether it is a good way to give money, a material reward, or other means, we will enter the in-depth discussion and analysis in the next article. If you think it will be helpful to you, I hope you can share it with more people. If you have any questions, you can also leave a message in the message area. Let us discuss and solve it together, grow together, and make progress together. Thank you for your careful listening.
