In September 2018, my little grandson Guoguo was already three years old and reached the age when he was time to go to kindergarten.
Going to kindergarten is a very happy thing for our generation. But Xiao Guoguo had only been to kindergarten for two or three days, and then cried and said to his mother: Guoguo won’t go to kindergarten! Guoguo doesn’t go to kindergarten!
When his mother called me to tell me about this, I was incredibly surprised and found it very strange: the kindergarten is so good now, the meals are different every day, there are many toys toys, and the teacher also takes the children to play games together.
is so fun!
But why is our little fruit unwilling to go?
His mother said that the kindergarten is very restrained and not free. When he was at home, he was imaginative and came alone, and often asked adults to play with him. Of course he was happy.
, so that's it.
On Saturday, the good daughter-in-law took Xiao Guoguo to see us. Before entering the door, Xiao Guoguo shouted: Grandpa, grandma, Xiao Guoguo is here to see you.
looked at him happily, as if he had just eaten a few rainbow candy .
"Grandpa, are you good to play with Guoguo?" he said slowly.
"Okay! OK! Grandpa plays with you." I agreed to him very happily.
"Grandpa Guoguo misses you all."
Listening to his tender pleasing voice, my heart was almost drunk.
I accompanied him to the basement of my home, and I played building blocks together, Lego together, and toy train together...
When I was happy, he asked me repeatedly: Grandpa, is this your home?
"Yes. This is grandparents' home." I answered him tirelessly and said, "This is Guoguo's home too."
"Is that good for Guoguo here to accompany grandparents? Is it okay if I don't go back to my grandmother's house in Dushanzi, can it be?"
He looked at me innocently and asked.
"Why doesn't Guoguo want to go back to grandma's house?"
I asked him with a little puzzled question: "Grandma takes you to play every day, and personally sends you to kindergarten every day. I also buy you a lot of delicious food. How great."
"Guoguo doesn't go to grandma's house, Guoguo doesn't go to grandma's house."
He repeatedly said this sentence.
I wondered what to do if Guoguo misses her grandmother?
Guoguo's grandmother has lived with them for more than two years and should have a deeper relationship.
"Guoguo doesn't want grandma!" He answered firmly: "Guoguo doesn't go back to grandma's house."
"What should I do if Guoguo misses my mother?"
I turned to a question:
"Guoguo is the mother's child."
"Guoguo doesn't want mother!"
He answered decisively:
"Guoguo doesn't want mother to be a child, Guoguo is a child for grandpa. OK?"
I was shocked.
What's wrong with this child?
How did grandma and mother offend him?
"But Guoguo must be growing up soon, so he should let his mother take him to kindergarten to school."
"Guoguo doesn't want to grow up! Guoguo doesn't want to go to kindergarten!"
He answered me more firmly.
Oh, I finally understand. It turned out that Guoguo didn’t want to go to kindergarten, but she went around such a big circle.
Don’t want to grow up, don’t go back to my grandmother’s house, and would rather be a child for my grandparents. The ultimate goal is not to go to kindergarten.
How could a little young man who is just over three years old have such a brain?
is incredible.
