has no top stars, no high funds, and no good advertising. The program "Happy Start Again" has achieved a popularity of 2 billion yuan across the network, with an astonishing Douban score of 9.6, which undoubtedly has become a dark horse in this year's variety show.
The six guests in "Happy Reset", Chen Chusheng , Su Xing , Wang Leixin , Zhang Yuan , Wang Zhengliang , Lu Hu were the top 13 in the popular national talent show back then, but now they have become "small guys" and self-deprecating themselves as "re-employment boys".
 In 2007, I took the college entrance examination, and the program " Happy Boy " was also in full swing. After the college entrance examination, I also became a loyal fan of this program. In a blink of an eye, 15 years have passed, and I have also been a mother of two children from a college.
When watching the show, I was nostalgic and remembered my youthful years. Many times my eyes become wet as I look at it, both for them and for myself. I believe that many people have the same feelings as me.
htmlWhen I see them again in 15 years, in addition to missing me, I admire them more - I admire them for their love for music for decades, even if they are not famous, without money, without anyone understanding and support, they still love music as always.can be seen from the program that they will create with inspiration anytime and anywhere, using music to write their moods, life insights, etc.
For those of us who don’t understand, it will be very painful for no one to appreciate the music we have worked hard to create. But it is impossible to tell from them, because music is no longer a utilitarian thing for them, but a part of their life. Because of their love, they can last for decades, so their strength is beyond doubt. In that era when there was no sound editing and full-blown mic, it was the best proof that they were able to stand out among the many contestants. In the sixth episode of the show, the accompaniment Wang Zhengliang gave to everyone is the finishing touch, which is the best proof of his strength.
Seeing their joy, anger, sorrow and joy brought by music, I was also wondering what exactly makes them love so much. How can I make my children work hard and enjoy the process of giving like them. After thinking about it for a long time, I think the following points are:
First of all, we must respect the child's interests and try as much as possible.
We need to let the child try it multiple times, and only after he tries will he know what he really likes. Parents should not force their children to learn a certain content based on their own interests and hobbies.
Secondly, after making a choice, you must stick to it.
choice is easy to do, but persistence is difficult. Many people around us fish for three days and have two days of drying the net, which ends up achieving nothing.
The six people in "Happy Start Again" have been insisting on making music, so they have the possibility of "becoming popular" this time. Of course, their persistence was not for "becoming a hit", but it brought unexpected results.
In addition to perseverance, persistence also requires certain methods, such as superimposing abilities and interests. When we learn all kinds of skills, we will involve getting a certificate, which is a way to confirm good abilities. If you just keep learning, without assessment standards, and don’t know how you are learning, it will not only be difficult to persist, but you will also fall into confusion and don’t know how to improve next. So I encourage my children to take the grading exam to affirm their abilities. The children themselves will also improve their self-confidence and become more motivated to persevere.
Finally, we must explore the sense of mission behind our interests.
People who create music hope that their music can bring happiness to others and hope to persevere. This is a sense of mission.
Those who study medicine hope to cure more people, this is the sense of mission.
People who are teachers hope to hand over what they have learned to more children and let them change their destiny. This is a sense of mission.
When a child has such a sense of mission, it is no longer his own business if he persists.
Of course, finding a sense of mission is not something that can be achieved in a day or two. We must be patient and find their sense of mission with our children.
I am Ruijuan, a second-child mother. I like to study parenting knowledge. Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area. Let’s work together to cultivate children while achieving a better self.
