I understand you will come, so I wait for
Author / Gangguma
st row version / Gangguma
st page number / 1958 words
reading time / 4 Minutes
As soon as I got home, the child was having fun.
Before I could change my slippers, the child had already run to me, holding the book in his hand, pointed at me constantly, signaling me to read it again and again.
. After a closer look, it was the last mentioned Ding Limei 's book -"Let your dream turn a corner" is now being raised high by the child.
fresh and elegant cover shows the pure and simple name of the bid.
I fell in love with it all at once. When I held it in my hand, I seemed to have a handover between time and space with the Chinese teacher Xu who borrowed books. That feeling is strange, but warm.
especially the passage behind it, which is even more healing. I will copy it as follows and share it with you:
The life of each of us is actually a dream life.
We run on the road, just on the way to find our dreams.
We were inspired by one dream after another, jumping forward happily.
also has depression, twists and turns, and hesitation,
But because of dreams,
Every day we live lushly and vigorously.
I read very emotionally, and the children listened to it with fun, and the corners of our mouths were filled with smiles of the same arc.
Happiness and satisfaction of the child this day are given by this book, and it is also given by Teacher Xu, who borrowed this book. At the same time, he also acted as the most critical link.
Not only did he fulfill his mother's instructions, Teacher Xu also kept his promise and brought the book, handed it to the child, and gave it to me.
From the appearance of the little adult when I was given a book, the child's full sense of accomplishment can be seen.
But such happiness and satisfaction are often blocked by some other things.
One day during the holiday, I came home from get off work and my home was extremely quiet, as if there were traces of a fight.
Then I saw the lights in the kitchen, and the father and son under the lights were on one side.
angrily pouted his little mouth, with tears on his face, and stood motionless in front of the stove.
Another one is cooking noodles on fire, but the instant noodles in the pot are already cooked, and only the sauce is still on top.
at first glance is the instant noodles that children want to eat. They occasionally teach their children to cook and eat them themselves. On the one hand, they exercise their hands-on ability, so they won’t go hungry during the epidemic, and on the other hand, they also find some fun for their children.
Every time I remind him that even a bowl of instant noodles should not let it lose its soul. It can still be nutritionally balanced with eggs, ham sausages, and lettuce, and the child is still not satisfied with it.
Today, it looks like there is no soul three-piece set, and this side has also lost its soul.
I asked, why didn’t the ingredients be added! As a result, the child returned to the house angrily, and the door was closed heavily, but finally closed gently.
Because I have said that closing the door should be lighter, and the child still restrained his emotions at the end.
In a blink of an eye, what's going on?
"He cooked the noodles by himself, took them out, put them in cold water, and then put them in the sauce." After saying that, the gentleman looked at me.
"Excluding the third step, the others are done well." I replied with a smile, at least the skill of ignition and cooking noodles is correct, as a child, you have to practice it a few more times.
"I also told him how to do it, you see, it's still put it in cold water! You don't use your brain at any time?" The gentleman seemed very wronged. He said it, but the child did not do it, which shows that he didn't use his brain. That's the logic.
Adults teach children how to do things. If they do something wrong, they will point it out. This book is understandable. This is how we came here when we were young. We were ordered and scolded. Although we were dissatisfied, we did not dare to commit crimes.
But why do children pout, cry, feel uncomfortable, lose control of their emotions, and even want to slam the door, why is this happening?
The reason is, on the one hand, it is because of fear, and the other reason may be that it is not satisfied internally.
originally had a kind of fear of the unknown, and the gentleman's words "Have you used your brain?" and his disapproval on his face made him even more deeply afraid of this fear;
also wanted to show off his skills in front of his father, full of desire to get his praise, but he was ruined because of his mess. His inner loss was beyond words, and he did not receive the respect his father deserved.
Everything in front of him means failure to him, which means nothing can be achieved, which is difficult for anyone to accept, let alone he is still a child.
Cleared this relationship and I knocked on the child's door. Carefully asked the real reason for the tears, and from his perspective, we analyzed the whole thing:
"You are so sad and uncomfortable at this moment because you heard the father say 'Did you use your brain'?
Actually, you have thought about it seriously and want to do things well, but just ignore some things, right?"
"Even if you do something wrong, you still do it great!"
are just a few simple words. The child's eyes that were still crying suddenly flashed, becoming soft and well-behaved. He knew that his mother understood him, and he also knew that his mother respected and understood him.
We all say we should respect children, but it is actually reflected here. Mr.
Mr. The idea of "I told him everything" and "How good if he listened to me" has already put the child on our opposite side, and the communication afterwards becomes useless.
true respect means looking at everything he has experienced from the perspective of others and looking at what he is experiencing from his perspective, there will be no more of the things he imagined.
Although I am a child, I also need such respect.
Similarly, the book handed by the teacher was received by my child through the child's hand. It was precisely because the child really felt that he, a small individual, was respected.
When the inner needs are fully satisfied, happiness and satisfaction are particularly simple. When I said this, the gentleman also felt a different meaning. It's true.
I found it helpful to you after reading it. I hope you can spend 0.1 seconds to like~
Your little like will always be the motivation for me to continue to create. Thank you~♥️
Happy night!
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rolling moist, in muddy life, a trumpet flower that strives to grow upward.
