Nowadays, children are all treasures in their hands and hearts. They give their children what they think is the best. If they want their children to become better, they will also develop their own personality as their children grow up. Now parents hope that their children can be independent and have a certain ability to withstand stress. So what are the small ways to cultivate their children’s independent personality?
You should know that raising children is raising children. What you raise is a person with flesh and blood, emotions and thoughts, not horse racing. Raise children with a horse racing mentality and finally raise horses that only run around the racetrack. What’s wrong with seeking kindness? Of course you can plan what age your child can learn, but you should know that your plan is for the child to be "independent in personality, mature in thought, and knowledgeable", not for "competition".
If your personality is not independent, your child will not be independent even if he follows the same person. And if you want your child to be independent in personality, then things will go against your wishes, and you will not look down on your child, and the parent-child relationship will not be much better. If you are not independent in personality and you let others cultivate your child to be independent in personality, you will involuntarily rely on your child. Your child’s personality is independent and he will definitely not like to be relied upon by parents who are not independent. Instead of letting him train you to an independent parent in the future, it is better to fly first.
One fact we must accept is that only a very small number of children will become very outstanding people, and most of the remaining children will be ordinary people who cannot be more ordinary people. : To cultivate children's personality independence requires parents to give them full respect and space.
Through rich reading and life experience, guide children to pay more attention to observation and thinking, and be interested in life. Through daily accumulation, we can broaden our horizons and enrich our minds.
