nagging means talking long-lastingly, not concisely, and repeating the same thing. Nagging is valuable for children in the infant stage, because children in the infant stage lack memory and their brain development is not perfect. Nagging a few more words will make the children remember, thus reflecting the value of this sentence. However, for children over four years old, if parents say something repeatedly about something, it will make the child rebellious and lose the value of this sentence. Therefore, it can be seen that parents must repeat a sentence in moderation. If they say too much, the opposite effect will occur.
Parents always like to nag, what adverse effects will they have on their children?
1. When parents encounter problems with their children or ask their children to remember something, if they repeat it many times, it will cause their children to feel disgusted and make them think that their parents do not care about their feelings and face. This repeated reminder education method is of no effect for children today.
2. Parents’ nagging will also make children lose their willingness to listen, because in many cases, the negligence shown by children is not what parents think. At this time, if parents do not give their children the opportunity to explain, they will say something they keep on the side, even if the children want to explain, they cannot explain it. Even if some children can say it, parents will mistakenly think that their children are evading responsibility. If parents do not pay attention to this problem, they will make the children think that all their behaviors are not valued by parents and cannot be understood by parents, which will to a certain extent will be psychologically distanced from their children.
3. Parents’ nagging can also make children feel disconfidant, which is a behavior of lack of confidence and accusation. This also shows that parents are not good at controlling their emotions, constantly venting their expectations and emotions on their children, and do not consider their feelings at all. In the long run, the negative emotions transmitted by parents to their children will cause the children to feel extremely psychological pressure, which will lead to the children being unrighteous and unconfident.
In my opinion, parents who often nag also have a manifestation of looking down on others and disrespectful to others. If the communication method with their children is always based on nagging, the child will also develop a behavior of indifference to your nagging, which will affect the child's personality and disrespectful behavior. Therefore, if your child wants to be respected by others, parents must learn to set an example and respect others by example.
