So a large number of parents want to give their children the best. Whether in the past or present, every generation of parents is like this. They want to give their children any good things, especially in that they all meet their children's material needs as much as possible. does not want their children to be satisfied in life, but instead they are compared by others.
The traditions of generation after generation are influenced by people. After becoming parents, many children naturally want to do their best to give their children the best.
For children with better family conditions, these are simply easy. However, most children’s family situation is not particularly favorable. Parents work hard to earn money just to give their children a better life and to grow better. Just like Many parents save money on their own and are reluctant to buy any expensive things. On the contrary, they have to choose the good and expensive milk for their children.
high-end milk is reluctant to drink, but the child gave it half a box. Is it really stingy?
In fact, for a very ordinary family, the family's financial conditions are not that good, and milk can be regarded as a very high expenditure. So many parents are frugal and are reluctant to drink, so they only leave it to their children, but they find that the children are not very rare. Instead, they turn around and give it to other students. The parents feel very distressed when they see this scene.
This parent also encountered the same situation and didn't know what to do. Should I blame my child for not understanding the hardships of parents for how many boxes of milk, or should I let my child "squander" his own money like this?
This parent found out that many parents had encountered similar situations and had never found a way to solve this problem with the best of both worlds.
Some netizens also think that children may not have so many twists and turns. Their ideas are simple. They should be just because their friends have a good relationship, so giving a bottle of milk is nothing. Maybe other students will share it with their children.
Of course, there are also many children who are habitual and develop the habit of being big-handed and wasting things. If this is the case, parents should guide their children well and let them develop good habits of spending money.
Because many parents came from the hard days in the past and clearly knew that every little bit is hard to come by, so they attach great importance to the price of things. However, the child has not experienced the hard work of making money. Instead, he feels that the money he has in his hands is easy, so he has developed the bad habit of wasting. Parents have different concepts of money from their children, which is also a very important reason why problems often arise between parents and children.
"Share" is a virtue. Children understand that sharing is a good thing. Perhaps the same is true for the class where children are in. If there are toys or snacks, students and friends can share with each other, which is naturally worth promoting. But if children "share" because of their comparisons and constantly want to bring better things to beat others, then parents should stop it in time.
In this regard, parents should guide and educate their children well, so that they can form the correct concept of money from an early age and develop good living habits.
In fact, there is no need for parents to aggrieved themselves for their children. Many parents themselves are reluctant to leave things that they just want to leave for their children, and they also blindly emphasize how precious such things are to let their children remember them. This will often arouse their children's disgust. Children will not want the things they get to depend on their parents' "wrongedness", which will put huge pressure on their children.
Parents should let their children understand their actual family situation, and let them know that the source of material things requires labor. There is nothing in vain in the world. If you want to get what they want, you must make some effort. At the same time, let children develop a correct view of money, without having to feel inferior for what they don’t have, nor do they waste things they already have.
Also, Don’t let children indulge in blindly “sharing”, let children understand that their one-sided efforts are meaningless, and sharing should be two-way.
If only you are "sharing" and the other party has no action to express it, then you should understand that your unilateral "sharing" should be stopped in time. Parents should let their children understand that they should never just compromise and "please" others to share, and do not "begging" them for others.
