"Parents' Awakening 1" is a work published by Dr. Sabari, Ph.D., using his research results to help many people summarize and publish based on practical experience. Many of the views in the book
are novel and useful. Parents who want to educate their children well recommend collecting it and check it out when they have time.
has been reading this book for a long time. I want to share something, but I have never found a breakthrough point. I simply excerpted the sentences in the article that I personally think are more useful, hoping to give some help to all parents.
If parents can accept their limitations and imperfections, children will accept everything about themselves calmly and be their true self calmly.
If we accept our limitations and imperfections, it is equivalent to doing a good thing for our children and revealing to them a message of tolerance.
Only by completely affirming the spirit of independence of children can we grasp the spiritual key points of being a parent.
We will unconsciously teach them how to get along with our unsolved fears, our resistance to emptiness, and our forgotten lies.
Life itself doesn’t matter whether it’s good or bad, it’s neutral. However, each of us has the power to choose a way to interpret our lives, which greatly affects the nature of our life experiences.
Young children are invincible in their fantasy world, and their potential is endless.
The more flexible and relaxed we are towards our children, the more likely they are to maintain close relationships with us.
A person's value depends on the material wealth he has.
We must understand our ordinaryness, but we can also appreciate the beauty.
Parents should be patient and not force their children to participate in various activities, nor are they in a hurry to instill various knowledge in them. The wisdom inherent in children's hearts will guide them to choose their own destiny.
Only when parents keep their true nature and don’t care about how much they have done, listen to their own voices without being influenced by external factors can their parent-child relationship be free from anxiety and changes.
The external world nourishes the inner world, and the inner world also feedbacks the outer world.
Children will not stay by our side forever, they will live their own lives sooner or later.
Young children are especially good at constantly discovering themselves in every inch of time. They are born with courage, able to get involved in the torrents of life and adapt to the situation.
The reason why we want children to succeed so strongly is because we desire to get a sense of recognition from them.
When children find that their parents never deliberately pursue something and live a real and pure life, they will develop the same psychological qualities.
Parents should encourage their children to take risks boldly and tell them that the desire to try hard is more important than mastering a certain skill, and facing their own limitations is more important than being persistent in perfection.
The feeling of success comes from the heart and depends on external standards. --It doesn't matter what kind of results you achieve, so I never have any fear of my transcript.
The most profound way for children to enter the rich heart to gain strength and find their goals is to penetrate into our inner world.
If we do not build our own source of happiness on our children and know how to find happiness elsewhere, we will liberate them and make them loyal to their true selves.
Encouraging children to be alone in peace will be of great benefit so that they can learn to gain peace without talking to them.
has a home to live, with delicious food, a strong body, with the company of friends and family, and the beautiful scenery of nature.
We must know how to thank all the gifts and teachings in life. They make us more fulfilled and can better express the love in our hearts.
We must observe their bodies, including their bodies, emotions, and energy. Only in this way can we perceive their state clearly.
We just get along purely - eating, gaming, reading, and chatting. This is a simple hour, it has powerful power and can make the child's heart full and fulfilling.
We should use wisdom to encourage children to feel all their emotional fluctuations, and then express them through appropriate channels.
I don't know, but we can find the answer together.
's ability to ask questions is even better than answering questions. This way they focus on the process rather than the result.
We should pay attention to children's attention to asking questions, which is equivalent to telling them how magical the imagination is.
Parents need to let their children understand that troubles in life can be transformed into spiritual and emotional wealth.
Parents should learn to discover their kind motivations from behind their children's wrong behaviors, make their children believe in the beauty in their nature, and maintain the courage and enthusiasm to try.
Encourage children to face their mistakes, so that they can face up to their shortcomings and limitations and continue to move forward bravely.
The reason why children bully people is because they have pain in their hearts. The escalation of bullying into violence is because the perpetrator has a deep sense of humiliation in his heart, and only by passing the pain on others can he be relieved.
Because they have broken with their truest virtues, they will turn to attack the virtues of others.
In other words, the violence of young people comes from childhood experiences and interactions between the elderly and the children. When children no longer need to bear the blame and pain from their parents, they no longer need to vent their emotions to others.
When a child is wrong, if he can be respected and if his feelings can be protected, he will not turn to humiliate others.
Troubles in life can always be transformed into spiritual and emotional wealth.
Encourage children to face their own mistakes, which can make them face their shortcomings and limitations.
Enlightened discipline constraints are not an opposition between parents and children, but a circular dynamic relationship.
If children cannot express their feelings directly, their body and mind will look for other ways. Once they are separated from their inner world, they will be driven to search for "lost fragments" elsewhere. This is very likely to lead to self-destruction or harm to others.
When children act too clingy or rebellious, start stealing, cut themselves, refuse to take a bath, skip school, etc., it indicates that they are emotionally lacking.
Children's behavior is by no means groundless, it must have potential psychological reasons. Our responsibility is to discover it.
Problem boys are not formed overnight. Their problem is the result of the long-term effect of suppressed real and false promises.
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