Many children are addicted to playing with mobile phones and are not interested in other things. Parents are anxious that their children are poisoned by games, but they cannot find the right way to educate their children, which is often counterproductive.
There is an example of this. Xiao A's child is four years old this year. The child has no friends at home and can only relieve his boredom by playing games and watching TV. But over time, the child became addicted to games.
The one that impressed Xiao A was when the child was playing with his mobile phone, his mother called him. When answering, the child showed anger and unhappy mood, and even started crying. This made her wonder how to pull the child out of the game.
So how should parents deal with this situation?
1. Communicate with your children frequently
Some parents are busy with work and don’t have time to take care of their children, so they let their children be with their mobile phones, so their children can only rely on games to entertain themselves. Parents should communicate more with their children and talk about what happened in one day, which will also enhance the relationship between their children and their parents.
2. Parents set an example
When parents are in front of their children, they reduce the time they spend playing with their mobile phones, take their children to feel nature, do handicrafts, watch movies, etc., so that their children know that in addition to games, there are many fun things.
3. Appropriately guide the time for children to play games
Before children play games, tell the child how long they can play and strictly control the time. You can also ask your child to give appropriate game rewards after completing the task, but the rewards need to be grasped well and not too frequent, otherwise it will go to another extreme.
4. Never use violence to suppress children
As the saying goes, "no fighting will lead to talent", violent education will make children more rebellious, and children with poor psychological endurance will leave a shadow and affect their lives.
In the final analysis, why children are addicted to mobile phones and games is mostly because they are unhappy, so they need to get inner satisfaction in the virtual world;
From a psychological perspective, if you want to change your children, beating, scolding, and falling is basically useless. Only by arousing the strength of your children’s heart is the foundation.
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