My aunt's cousin's cousin sent me a message saying that she had a quarrel with her cousin. She asked the reason because my cousin usually doesn't do housework and is unwilling to take care of her baby. In short, after my cousin gets off work every day, she will only lie on the sofa holding her phone and playing games, just like a giant baby in "to stretch out her hands when she gets clothes, and to open her mouth when she gets food."
Cousin's wife also has to work every day. She and her cousin come home from get off work together to do housework such as washing clothes, cooking, etc., and they are all done by her cousin's wife. After dinner, my cousin's wife also took her child to read picture books. My cousin is like a hand-off manager , and he doesn't care about anything. Sometimes my cousin’s wife asked her to watch the baby, and he complained about the child being naughty while playing games.
cousin's wife said that he was spoiled by your aunt and did not teach him independent ability since childhood. What I said makes sense. My cousin has been spoiled since he was a child. Because his scores well in , my aunt thinks that everything in is excellent in . My cousin’s job was also good after graduation. Only after he got married to his cousin’s wife did he reveal many shortcomings.
On the road of children's growth, parents pay the most attention to the children's score . I often hear parents nagging to their children that as long as you have good academic performance, you don’t have to worry about anything else.
Parents can sacrifice their baby's time to play for their children's learning, but they don't tell our children that body is the capital of revolution .
. Cultivate boys to exercise more.
There is data showing . More than 60% of primary and secondary school students exercise for no more than 1 hour , and even more than one-third of children do not exercise.
Children will naturally become worse and worse when they do not exercise for a long time. The neighbor's child is only 16 years old this year. Because of the heavy daily study tasks, he sits at his desk every day. I sat in class when I was in school. Now I often took online classes at home, and it was also , which was just a day when I sat in .
Later, the child felt a lot of pain in his waist and it was very difficult to sit. After going to the hospital for examination, the child actually had lumbar disc herniation . If the situation is more serious, surgical treatment is required.
The baby was originally the same age as the flower, but he suffered from illness due to long-term failure to exercise. This situation makes people feel distressed. We often say that health is 1, and the following is 0. If there is no 1, it means that loses health . No matter how many 0 is added, it doesn’t make any sense.
The book "Raising a Boy" says that fathers have a profound impact on their children. I hope that their children will become better and better. The father must convey the correct values of .
Boys have 30% more muscle mass than girls. They are strong and are more suitable for more physical exercise. Children who often exercise sports will also feel safe in . As a father, you should take your children to play more, because while accompanying them to exercise and laugh, you can tell them when to stop and when to restart.
Father and son During the game, the child knows how to master the degree of . When playing with his friends in the future, he will obviously know the scale and know when he should stop.
For boys, more exercise has many benefits. Going outdoors to breathe fresh air can lay a good foundation for a healthy body, make the child's brain richer and more conducive to learning.
. Boys should learn to be independent.
Let boys learn to do what they can in daily life, for example, a baby who is five or six years old can help his mother sweep the floor and remove the garbage. When my son and I go to the supermarket together, I often hand over the shopping bags to him and tell my baby that the mother is a girl, you need to learn to take care of the girl .
In this way, my son feels like a little man. After he grows up, gets married and has children, he will take the initiative to do housework, take care of his wife and children, and assume the responsibility of a man.
Start with little or no in daily life to cultivate your son’s independence. Let your children do what they can, such as dressing, eating, and cleaning up the room. Try to explore is a necessary path in the process of growth. Sometimes the child clearly wants to complete something by himself, but his father is reluctant to let go and take care of everything.
Only by letting go of and giving their sons appropriate encouragement and praise can they understand independence, and when they grow up, they can face problems alone and become confident and responsible men.
. Cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks.
Parents must tell their children that it is normal to fail. We want to find the reason why fails , analyze the problem, and then find the solution to .
A friend said that her child was already in college. One day, he suddenly called his old mother in a panic and said that there was a thorn in my hand. What should I do? The old mother was so amused and told him to find a way to get the thorn out. Later, the child asked the aunt in the supermarket to get the thorn out.
sounds like a joke, but in fact, 8-year-old boy is . When I encountered such a small thing, I even called my mother in a crying voice, which means that I had no son to guide me to fight back from a young age. Parents should set an example by to let their son understand that everyone will encounter setbacks. The important thing is to cheer up and become stronger after encountering setbacks.
Conclusion:
Parents cannot grow up on behalf of their children. must teach them to face the world bravely and independently. teaches children to be independent , love sports, face difficulties, and move forward bravely, so that boys will become more and more outstanding.
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