The child is inexplicably crying
A few nights ago, I originally wanted to say something to the child, but she was crying before going to bed at around 9 o'clock. I don't know what happened because I was watching a movie in the house and didn't pay attention.
The next day, I asked her mother specifically. It turned out that the elders at home came to the house yesterday. Because the children were doing their homework, the elders directly said in a blameful tone that they were a nerd.
I repeatedly confirmed it again because I have not experienced the context on the scene. Is it a blame or a joking tone? When I got the tone of blame, I could basically guess why, for a primary school student. I guess why he cried, I can guess.
I have nothing to say about the elders, because people have lived a lifetime and their language patterns have been fixed, because most of the elders I have met are praising their children for their hard work, and a very few will sarcastically blame them, but because of their identity issues, it is inconvenient to say more.
But the child is different because he has never experienced these things. I even think that when he enters the workplace or encounters a more truly dangerous situation in the future, there may be more and more foul words, one person. You must accept others' encouragement and praise for yourself, and you must be able to distinguish clearly.
others are and when they speak ill of each other. I don’t think it’s too early for primary school students to be the real self and what the real other person is.
Because a primary school student is in his learning stage, if this kind of confidence in learning does not receive positive feedback and is not actively encouraged and praised, it may be a leading factor for problems in the future. Think about it, if your child is a top student in school, has excellent academic performance, and often forgets to eat for the sake of studying. At this time, others mock him, or even talk about nerds. What should you do?
I don’t really believe that a person who works his brain can be considered a nerd.
Because 's usual way of speaking determines a person's way of thinking. As long as a person is constantly exploring and asking questions, his brain is a positive thinking pattern.
What makes me most depressed is that sometimes I often talk to my children and they will ask me countless whys. Sometimes I can take the call more than a dozen times, and sometimes I will be speechless when asked, but I think this process is positively praised.
Because the child's state has been maintained, I will constantly praise him, praise him, and keep making him persevere. I remembered that in July and August last year, even if I saw the stars in the sky at night, I was asked more than a dozen times by her why?
I specifically found my record on my Moments:
Maybe you think it is normal for primary school students to have such questions, but when you use this method on yourself, you can exert your power.
When those of us in the workplace encounter confusion, confusion, and situations that are unable to solve, why not ask this?
The ability comes from the process of facing difficulties or facing problems or thinking about methods, or actively thinking about methods
Because whenever I encounter difficulties and confusion, I will also use this method to treat myself, such as
The confusion I am facing now, I ask if there is a way to solve it?
I encountered this problem, besides this method, are there any more ways to solve it?
Can I solve this difficulty in copy ?
Has anyone solved this difficulty I encountered?
The difficulty I encountered is that people in this industry cannot solve the methods from other industries. Can they plagiarize and learn from it?
This difficulty I encountered, if I solve it, can I learn from it and make more money?
This difficulty I encountered, if I solve it, can my solution be sold to others to make money?
So people used to say that they fell and got up. If we follow this method, even if we fall, we must find a way before you get up. We cannot let this fall down.
In addition to this positive thinking, children have many advantages
For example, this painting won the prize in the provincial competition. I also asked a few parents, and this award is not easy to get.
Because many parents say that the Chunya Cup award is difficult to get.
plus the usual school grades and learning status, isn’t this the top student?
Says that a top student is a nerd. If a primary school student does this level, if he does not praise him, he will ridicule him. Isn’t this funny?
What do I think of as a nerd?
Everyone may have different definitions, but I think the following state may be the nerd in my current mind
For example, use other people's experience not to learn from your own environment and time.
For example, in a row makes mistakes in a certain problem or in a certain matter, without realizing it.
For example, think that everything you should do is what others want to do, curse, complain, and complain every day, think that it is all other people's problems.
For example, use past experience to test in an environment that is completely unsuitable because the time is not clear, and the environment has changed.
For example, I don’t know how to learn new things and new knowledge.
For example, you cannot think about problems from multiple angles 's .
For example, only consider yourself, but never think about others.
I'm talking about some state of my past, and I didn't criticize me. Don't think too much. I've never been a sarcastic person. Why did I write this article? is because the child is still young and has not established an inner firewall system. I can't face other people's harsh attacks on her , and I help him disassemble this article. I will tell him about this article, strengthen his beliefs, build self-confidence, and at the same time, I can tell him who is the nerd in life !
I am Hua Ge, more than 10 years of entrepreneurial experience, workplace old bird
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