Children avoid mothers and daughters avoid fathers. Many people understand this principle, but not all parents can do it, especially the standards in it, few people can perfectly master it.
There are many extremely realistic examples in life, just like many women will take a boy of seven or eight years old to the girls' bathroom for a bath, it is simply the most annoying existence for all women. At this point, men are better. After all, no man will take his seven or eight-year-old daughter to his daughter's bathroom for a bath.
Of course, this also causes the mother to take care of her children more and more careful, so this kind of controversy occurs. But there is no doubt that many mothers and sons cannot perfectly grasp this scale.
Recently, a woman in Quanzhou, Fujian Province was criticized by many people for a video of herself sleeping with her son. Although this is a personal housework and others have no right to tell her, this kind of mother-son relationship that does not master the standards is indeed worthy of the attention of women.
It is not difficult to see from the video that although the woman's son looks quite big, the woman likes to exercise very much and pays great attention to her figure on weekdays, so she looks not only young, but also very beautiful. It is impossible to tell that this is a mother with such a big child. Even if she says she is an intellectual sister to someone she doesn't know.
But it is such a beautiful mother. The video she shared is lying on the sofa with her son, letting her son sleep in her arms. Although this kind-hearted and filial picture looks very warm, such a young child is like a stack of arhats in the arms of a young and beautiful woman, which is reasonable.
Some people say that children have already begun to have gender awareness around the age of 6, especially boys. Although they are not proficient, they do have ideas and awareness in this regard. If adults cannot guide them correctly, it is easy for children to develop bad thinking and cognition.
Some people also say that no matter how close it is, this is the warmest side of the mother and son. If you exaggerate it, it would be a bit too much. After all, the love my mother has for her son is the greatest feeling in the world.
Love is divided into many kinds. The couple is called love, and the mother and son are called family affection. Although "love" appears in these feelings, they are different in essence.
Parents’ love for their children is not seeking rewards, selfless dedication, and willing to burn themselves to illuminate their children’s future. This kind of love is only great for being described. But love between couples is boundless and requires mutual efforts to respond. This kind of love can only be regarded as a mutual attraction of feelings.
children avoid mothers. This sentence is not just a saying. No matter how close a relationship is, it must ensure a good standard. This is not only responsible for the children, but also for their own family.
There may be parents who say that no matter when, in the eyes of parents, children are always children. This sentence is true, but what should be said or not is that in the eyes of parents, it does not mean that the child's body will not develop and the child's thinking will not change.
A child can only establish a good view of the three views under the dual protection of parents’ company. The care and delicacy of the mother will make the child less likely to get into a stubborn position when injured. The father’s rough and boldness can help the child enhance the child’s courage and sense of responsibility. Both are indispensable, but excessive loss of balance is not possible.
Every couple has their own parenting methods, which is also their own housework. Normally, others have no right to interfere. But after all, good medicine is good for the disease, and honest advice is good for the action. If you want your child to be more independent and let go in moderation in the future, it is beneficial for the child's growth.
Spoiling is the most effective way to destroy a child. Leaving nothing is a manifestation of parents' irresponsibility. Only by being relaxed and mastering the standards of getting along with parents and children can the family be filled with a warm atmosphere.
