A hot news about the first experience of widowed parenting!
actually has very simple content. One of the two roommates who shared the rent together has two cats. The cat is a small animal full of curiosity, so even if she has one owner, it did not prevent her from getting along well with the other roommate.
Just so happens that this roommate loves cats, so she happily plays with the kitten who came to visit her room!
Live a happy life with cat masturbation every day!
Do you think this is the ultimate happiness? Innocent! Of course not!
The ultimate happiness is that she is enjoying her cat, playing with cats and sucking cats. She doesn't have to participate in feeding cats. Clothing the cat's hair also includes the trouble of cleaning up the cat's excrement!
In short, she enjoyed all the joy brought by the two cats, but she perfectly avoided the hard work of raising her!
is similar to modern widowed parenting!
In fact, who is the most responsible for raising children? The clues can be seen from ancient Chinese sayings.
Not raising or raising is the fault of the father!
says that it is the father's fault that the child cannot teach well, which means that the father has no responsibility and obligations of a father at all. He is a completely failed father!
However, in modern times, there are still people who beautify this completely misaligned educational method into a joke in order to cover up the misalignment of the role of father: "A father will live with his children."
Then gave birth to many bloggers on short videos, all using the funny father-son get along with each other to illustrate how unreliable it is for a father to raise his children.
This typical way of shirking responsibility not only did not arouse anger, but also allowed many mothers to find a point of pride. At least her husband is more responsible than the father in the video!
The classic case of shirking responsibility by surrounding Wei and saving Zhao style not only does not condemn the father's indifference in family education, but also allows them to find the only highlight of their lives in a worse-than-than-than-style parenting video, which is to be more responsible than the men in the video!
has fatherly love, but not much!
can educate children, but it happens to be at the level of roommates!
When I posed for photos, showed off, and posted on Moments, I was the father of the child. Who else in the world loves her more than me! They are all slaves of daughters and controlled by sons. The so-called filial sons and kind fathers coexist in the circle of friends!
But when it comes to the children’s small problems of eating, dressing, sleeping, and drinking milk, I just don’t know, I can’t, I can’t!
definitely refused! The problem is that you can't learn it even!
Thinking about them are not stupid, how could they not learn it? Of course, it’s not that I can’t learn it, it’s just that I’m unwilling to waste time educating my children. Compared with games, bragging and praising beauties, raising children is really a long and boring responsibility!
Work can delay time, but raising children cannot be changed by time. It can only be done day after day, year after year to raise a child to look like an adult!
The so-called raising a child for a hundred years is always worried about ninety-nine! What we mean is the hard work of raising a child!
However, this part of the hard work is the sunken cost in marriage. It cannot be seen or touched. It can even become a pain point for others to laugh at you if the child grows up."The children can't be taught well, I really don't know what can be done well?"
On one side is a mother who works hard to raise children, and on the other side is a father who is not polite. When encountering such widowed childcare, he will throw the child directly to him, letting him know that the child is not the responsibility of one person, but the continuation of a family, and should be taken care of by both husband and wife!
The best roses can bloom, because of the hard work of gardeners!
Smart children are not born, but because of the joint efforts of both husband and wife, a stubborn stone can be turned into a diamond!
I hope there will be less widowed parenting in this world, and more responsibilities, obligations and responsibilities!
