I was born in the countryside. My father is a rural teacher and my mother is a rural woman. According to principles, my father is an intellectual. His ideological awareness should be higher and he will not have the idea of favoring boys over girls. But the result was just the opposite. My mother treated her equally, but her father was serious about favoring boys over girls.
I remember when I was a child, I had to help my family do farm work when I was over three years old. I took a small stool to help with the rice seedlings. Later, I grew up slowly, and I didn’t see my younger brother helping with farm work.
When I reached the age of studying, I was studying in the elementary school near our village. When my younger brother started studying, my father took him to the primary school in the town to study. I didn’t know that these manifestations were the idea of favoring boys over girls. I thought I was staying behind to accompany my mother.
When I was in elementary school, my mother was in poor health. All the work of going up the mountain to harvest firewood, mow grass and putting geese fell on me. A small body took everything. At that time, in order to take care of my mother, when I was in the fifth grade, I often asked for leave in school, and my grades plummeted. Later, in order to facilitate care, my father brought my mother to the town. At that time, the sixth grade was popular, and I didn’t even go to the sixth grade, so my father arranged for me to go to the first grade.
The idea that my father has always instilled in me is to repay my parents well. This is the only excellent quality he left to me without hesitation. Since I was a child, I have been very filial to my parents, and my grandparents, and I rarely care about it. After three years of studying for the middle school teacher, my father always received the salary. At that time, the most he said was that he had to pay back the money for me to finish the study. I also think it should be him, and I didn't think so much at that time.
Because my father is a teacher, I admire him since I was a child. I think he is knowledgeable and respected, and has always been a very positive image in my heart. Later, when I gradually grew up and matured, and had the ability to distinguish right from wrong, I realized that my father always favored boys over girls and had a serious idea.
My younger brother asked him to take him to study. My younger brother is a very smart child. He has already been admitted to a key middle school in elementary school, but he did not finish his studies later. He stopped studying in high school. His father also achieved great results in teaching and was unanimously recognized by teachers, students and parents. He can teach others and cannot teach his son.
After my brother came out to work, he made mistakes at first, but later he gradually corrected it. Now he can live a good life with his intelligence and intelligence, and has become the capital for my father to show off everywhere.
My sister-in-law's second child, and my parents went to take care of my daughter-in-law. This is what it should be. I also had a second child after half a year. After maternity leave, I went to work. The child was eight months old and no one could take care of him at work (the mother-in-law couldn't take care of him for special reasons). Thinking that my sister-in-law's child was over one year old at that time, and my sister-in-law had no job at home to take care of the child, so the parents didn't need to help him, so she asked my mother to come back to help me take care of the child and survived the difficult period. Who knew that my father refused on the grounds that she was afraid that my sister-in-law would have any objections. I had no choice but to find a way myself, so I asked the dormitory aunt to help me take care of her. At that time, I was really angry with my father.
Any festival is present, my father will remind me as soon as possible, and often use my mother as an excuse to say what my mother wants to eat. Yes, I satisfy him when he asked him what he asked. Maybe it was because I was too good at making it, but he didn't receive his attention. He thought that his thoughts would change after so many years. Who knew that I was thinking too much? My mother was nagging yesterday. When she heard that her daughter-in-law and grandson came back, she bought all kinds of delicacies. Her daughter never added vegetables when she came back, and her son never came back to see her all year round. She never invited her parents to have a meal outside. She was all unconscience.
I said to my mother, forget it, I have been through this for so many years, we all know his character, don’t worry too much about him. Yes, I have always known that my father's idea of respecting men is deeply rooted in his mind and will not change because he is old. As a daughter, I just hope that his parents will live a healthy and long life. Nothing else is a big deal!
