2nd generation of relatives no naughty kids
DOUBLE NINTH FESTIVAL
01
Young people have really been too difficult in the past few years. While they have to participate in the 996 internal circulation work hard, they also respond to the call of the country to have more babies. It is really tired and painful in their hearts.
It’s not that young people are playful and don’t want to have children, but that they all have a unified understanding, that is, it’s easy to have children and difficult to raise children.
The difficulty of raising children is not just the problem of money, but the invisible difficulty is: What should I do if the child always beats people? What should I do if my child is bullied? What should I do if my children always cheat? , etc., these problems that cannot be solved by money are the real headaches.
However, there is an interesting phenomenon. In the eyes of parents, these big-minded children are real treasures to their ancestors.
That’s right, this is the intergenerational relationship!
Due to the influence of traditional culture and economic pressure, many families live together for three generations. Young parents go out to make money, and their ancestors help take care of their children. In such a family, children may not be happy, but grandchildren are certain to be around their knees.
For many elderly people, they are happy to be caregivers of their grandchildren. Sometimes even their children will be "jealous" in their love for their grandchildren.
Although intergenerational education also has certain limitations, today is Double Ninth Festival. Let’s not talk about the shortcomings of the elderly raising children, let’s see how close the elderly are to “intergenerational relatives”!
Birth children are not as good as relatives (foreign) grandchildren
DOUBLE NINTH FESTIVAL
02
An old man became a grandfather and loved his grandson. He was unhappy when he saw his daughter because of it from time to time. He gave his daughter a profound "ideological education" and said: Don't look at this, who gave birth to a child with your mother and I, will we love him so much?
This is the magic and greatness of blood relationship.
Who calls them children? Children are used for love and care!
@Yan'erfei: Last week I went back to my hometown to do something, and by the way I went back to my parents' home, but I didn't take care of my children. As soon as I entered the door, my mother asked the child? I said I didn’t bring it back, but my mom said I didn’t bring the child, why are you here to come back? ...Is this my real mother?
@Life-life person:
Now my daughter wants to eat whatever she wants to eat, my parents will make it, and I eat whatever is left at home.
For example, yesterday, my dad went to the vegetable market early in the morning to buy fresh fish and picked out all the fish and meat for his granddaughter to eat.
I said I wanted to eat it too. He said that there was still some meat on the bones that were not clean, so I asked me to pick it up with my teeth! ! !
@spider: My status plummeted as soon as I came out of the delivery room! My husband is the only one waiting for me, and my parents and aunts are all in the ward to see the baby. Later, no matter what I ate, I was given to my baby. No matter what I did, my mother thought I was wrong. It was wrong to give my baby this, it was wrong to take a bath, it was wrong to feed, it was wrong to wear clothes, etc. Oh my God, I am your biological baby!
@Wang Dana: bought some food for my parents, and sent it back at noon on Saturday. Standing at the door, the conversation with my mother was like this: Me: Mom, I bought some for you...My mother: Where is my grandson? Me: Do homework at home. My mom: Oh, you are too busy, put down your things and leave quickly.Me: No, I haven’t had lunch yet...My mom: Well, your dad and I have finished eating, you can solve it outside yourself! This time I went home and didn’t even sit down the sofa in the living room, and didn’t bring their baby grandson. I couldn’t even make a living!
@Cat who can't sing:
My mother has been telling me that in her heart, I am the most important thing. The child just hurts by the way, and no matter how much I am, it will not be more important than me.
Today I was a little suspicious. My husband took my daughter out and had not returned home yet. My mother prepared the meal and asked me to eat it. When she saw that my daughter had not come back, she told me that the cabbage was stewed and came to eat the cabbage.
It was obviously a stewed pork ribs for cabbage, but I only let me eat cabbage. My heart suddenly became cold, and I was wrong after all.
@Da Tian Xiaomei: is so scary. During the earthquake, my parents took my two daughters away and didn't even call me. . . . . I was walking in the room, so I didn't feel the earthquake, but I was excited to hear what they were saying at the door. I walked out and saw that my dad was holding the eldest, my mom was holding the second, and I said, what are you doing? My mom said, the earthquake just now, it was scared to death, we ran away... I said, what, earthquake? Escape? You didn't call me... My dad said, I didn't care about it! I didn't care about it! !
It is said that people are old and like an old child. When an old child meets a real child, it really doesn’t matter how much love you are.
Whether they are fifty, sixty or seventy, they will be happy to dance. This is the joy of family!
However, no matter how you complain, having parents and in-laws who love our children like this is the happiness of the children and our blessing.
It is precisely because the parents love us that they love our children so much.
children who are loved by the other generations
DOUBLE NINTH FESTIVAL
03
Not all children who are overly loved have become "little bully" and "naughty kids" in people's eyes when they grow up.
On the contrary, these loves from grandparents and grandparents not only warmed their childhood, but also warmed their long life.
@MOMO: My great-grandma and I are 76 years apart, and she has been with me for a full 18 years. My great-grandma was taking care of me as soon as I was born, and she didn't return to her hometown until I went to kindergarten. After that, I will go back to accompany her every holiday. For me, there is only one meaning to go back to my hometown - accompanying , great-grandma, . When I was a child, someone asked me, "Wouldn't you feel scared when you sleep with your great-grandma at night?" On the contrary, sleeping next to my great-grandma is the time for me to feel most at ease. When I was a child, when my great-grandma fell asleep, I would occasionally look into her breath, for fear that she would leave suddenly. Now, my great-grandma has been away for a year, and I think I have been mentally prepared, but whenever I think of my great-grandma, I still cry.
@Qingting:
I went to my grandfather's house by myself. The old man is in his seventies, but he is also hard, but his back is not decent.
I went there, and the old man ignored me and didn't say a few words to me. He brought me the house with his hands on his back, and then brought me fruits and went to the vegetable garden to pick persimmons.
That day, from noon to evening, my grandfather made three meals of meat for me, noon pork ribs and evening fish. In the afternoon, he woke me up and said that I had given me pork head meat.
I had to stay there at night, but I had to leave at 10 o'clock in the evening. I said I would come back to see you when I have time. If I don't help, I'll have a video. The disappointment in his eyes made me feel distressed.
took me to a taxi place. I saw me get in the car and kept watching me walk. I kept watching him. Later, I saw him turn over and walk back with his hands on his back, and his nose felt sore.
@Pig who wants to lie flat:
Life makes me breathless, but when I think of my grandmother and eat a bowl of noodles cooked by my grandmother, I feel that the whole world will be better. My feelings for my grandmother exceed my parents, and the days with my grandmother are the happiest days.
Even if I am ordinary, I will always be the best one in my grandmother’s heart. In outsiders, I will always be the capital for my grandmother to "show off".
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I can't imagine what I should do if one day she is gone.
I will give up my seat to the elderly by taking the bus, buy things sold by the elderly, and be friendly to strangers I don’t know because it is someone else’s grandparents and grandparents.
I hope to be friendly to my grandparents and grandpa when they meet them.
People always say that we are relatives from generation to generation, but when we were young, we did not have these concepts. We only silently accept the selfless love. Only when we grow up and recall all the trivial things in our childhood can we know that we must remember this unscathing family affection that will last our lifetime.
What loves us more than our parents is their parents. They are not good at expressing words, but they interpret great love with practical actions.
Intergenerational love is hidden in daily life
DOUBLE NINTH FESTIVAL
04
Do you still remember the candy that grandma hides in her closet and doesn’t want to eat?
Do you still remember the noodles made by grandma that covered with four poached eggs?
Do you still remember the wooden toys made by grandpa yourself?
Do you still remember grandpa carrying you to the market for a while?
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Their love for us has always been there.
Those loves are hidden in the ordinary daily life.
Those loves are hidden in their increasingly dark wrinkles.
Those loves are hidden in their rough and powerful hands.
That love is hidden in every day we grow up.
Today is Double Ninth Festival. The child who was spoiled by his grandparents back then has become a parent. Look at the current children, they are still extremely pampered by their grandparents. This is a kind of happiness.
The inheritance of bloodline and the continuation of family affection are conveyed in the love of the intergenerational relatives.
Respect the elderly and the elderly of others, I hope everything is safe and sound!
