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In early November 2019, in the Maternal and Child Health Hospital in Cixi City, Zhejiang Province, a woman named Xiaomei gave birth to a baby boy weighing more than 6 kilograms.
It is a happy thing to get pregnant and have a baby.
But facing the child in front of me, the family is a little bit unbelievable.
Because everyone has no idea when a pregnant woman gets pregnant.
Even Xiaomei herself only knew the existence of this child until she was pregnant for ten months and caused abdominal pain.
What's even more incredible is that the couple worked hard to prepare for pregnancy for ten years and had two test tube fertilizations without success.
, even, Xiaomei was unfortunately sentenced by a doctor to suffer from " polycystic ovary syndrome " that is difficult to get pregnant.
Xiaomei and her family
But who knew that just after the family accepted the incident, the child came "accidentally".
And the specific process behind it is even more surprising...
test tube failed, and all my thoughts are gone
In fact, the family is not unwelcoming the "arrival" of children.
In fact, they had tried high-tech means such as "test tube" to get this child.
At that time, 33-year-old Xiaomei had just learned about cruel news from the doctor.
She suffers from a disease that is difficult to get pregnant - Polycystic ovary syndrome .
After hearing about this, Xiaomei, who returned home, was worried.
It was not until her husband got off work that she told the whole story in detail.
Fortunately, the whole family expressed their understanding, and it was more of concern and distress for Xiaomei.
, especially her mother-in-law, after learning about her illness, not only did not blame her daughter-in-law, but kept comforting her:
"There must be another way! Now the most important time is to raise your body."
"Yes, we are still young anyway, and it doesn't mean that is infertile , take your time."
Hearing his mother's words, Dali also gently stroked Xiaomei's shoulder and comforted her.
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For a long time, neither Dali nor his mother-in-law mentioned Xiaomei about pregnancy preparation.
The whole family is patiently waiting for Xiaomei to slowly recuperate and restore her mood.
During this period, Dali also took advantage of his vacation to take Xiaomei back to his hometown in Anhui.
He thought, it would be beneficial to change a new environment and relax his wife.
Sure enough, Xiaomei's face gradually smiled.
She began to meet her former colleagues to go shopping and party.
It was during a chat with my colleague that Xiaomei accidentally heard a message.
It turns out that a colleague has a friend and it is difficult to get pregnant.
But later, the couple went to the hospital for IVF.
I just gave birth to a daughter a few days ago.
Xiaomei felt that there was hope for giving birth, so she happily told Dali about it.
The two of them first checked a large amount of information online, including the risk, price, probability of success, etc. After they felt that the solution was feasible, they went to the hospital for consultation.
Soon, after a series of examinations, the doctor evaluated that Xiaomei and his wife met the conditions for IVF.
But you need to wait for the opportunity to do test tubes, and the most important step is to retrieve eggs.
Judging from Xiaomei's physical condition, it is difficult for the egg to develop and mature.
In order to increase the success rate of egg retrieval, Xiaomei forced herself to get up early and go to bed early and eat a light diet.
She will also occasionally listen to some soothing and light music to prevent her nerves from being so tense.
When I first checked the development of the egg, the doctor said that it did not have a mature advantageous follicle and the egg was not developing very well.
Fortunately, after a month, Xiaomei, with the help of medication, the sex hormones became stable.
"egg retrieval" is a key step.
Next, the doctor cultivated it into a blank fetus, and after choosing a suitable time, he underwent transplant surgery to allow the embryo to implant in Xiaomei's body.
After the operation, Xiaomei did not dare to walk around for fear of affecting the stable development of the embryo.
For half a month, she was paying attention to changes in her body every day, and the little movement made her frightened.
Although I carefully cared for everything, when I went to the hospital for examination, the doctor said it was a pity that the embryo did not implant successfully.
The first failure, Xiaomei and Dali were not discouraged, and they decided to make a second attempt.
After a year of slowing down, in the spring of 2017, the couple came to a more authoritative Grade 3 Hospital in Hangzhou.
They plan to perform another test tube.
However, the God of Luck did not come.
After a long egg retrieval stage, the embryo transfer operation was still unsuccessful.
After running around in the hospital many times, the couple was exhausted.
However, they still refused to accept such a result and wanted to try the last time.
Back to Cixi 's home, the whole family thought about it and spent almost all the money on pregnancy preparation over the years.
Now I want to do another test tube, but the money is not enough.
They decided to slow down and make plans after saving enough money.
That's it. After two years, the family's financial situation has not become more optimistic, and the test tube method cannot work.
Looking at his unscrupulous belly, and seeing the two test tube failure reports placed beside him, Xiaomei sighed deeply.
She recalled that from the age of 23 who was just preparing for pregnancy to now at 33 years old, she had missed the best childbirth age.
And in those ten years, the family went from full of expectations to powerlessness.
keeps trying, things go against their wishes
In fact, Xiaomei and Dali are both from Anhui.
The two have known each other for many years and have been very loving.
After graduating from university, the two made an appointment to come to Cixi, Zhejiang to develop.
2009, after the economic situation stabilized, they finally obtained the marriage certificate .
After marriage, Xiaomei and Dali discussed with her and wanted to have a child quickly.
Because she often hears the elderly say that when she gives birth to a child when she is young, she will recover quickly and well after giving birth.
Xiaomei was only 23 years old at the time and was in good condition in all aspects, so she was suitable for pregnancy.
Moreover, she could see that her mother-in-law was also anxious about holding her grandson.
Just after Xiaomei entered the door, her mother-in-law put two plates of dates and peanuts under the wedding bed.
The meaning of having a noble son early and having more children and more blessings can be seen by anyone with discerning eyes.
On dining table , the mother-in-law expressed her hope to bring her grandson as soon as possible.
Since the mother-in-law has this meaning, she does have the wish to have children.
So, Xiaomei simply quit her job and devoted herself to preparing for pregnancy at home.
At the beginning, the whole family was full of confidence and felt that Xiaomei would definitely be pregnant within a month or two. During
, the mother-in-law also went to some children's temples in the countryside to ask for children to give talismans to their daughter-in-law.
Da Li comes back from get off work every day and makes nutritious meals for Xiaomei in different ways, and even goes online to search for videos of food making and study Xiaomei’s favorite recipes.
Xiaomei saw the efforts of her mother-in-law and her husband, and she prepared for pregnancy as planned every day.
In addition to supplementing the required nutrition, she will also actively exercise.
However, a year has passed, and Xiaomei's belly has not changed at all.
"It's okay, maybe the opportunity hasn't come, wait."
Fortunately, her husband can understand Xiaomei's difficulties, so he comforted her from time to time:
"After all, it's only one year, and many couples have worked hard for many years to have children."
Xiaomei nodded, continued to cheer up, and be ready to welcome a new life at any time.
One morning, Xiaomei got up as usual for breakfast.
But as soon as she smelled the meat, she felt a sensation and started to retching.
The mother-in-law sitting opposite was surprised at first, then showed a happy look, urging Dali to take Xiaomei to the hospital for examination:
"Take Xiaomei to see, maybe she is happy!"
came to the hospital, and Dali directly latched Xiaomei in the obstetrics and gynecology department account and asked the doctor to check if he was pregnant.
While waiting for the inspection results, Dali clasped his hands tightly, looking even more nervous than Xiaomei.
The two of them waited for an afternoon, and in the evening, the report came out.
On the table in the "urinary pregnancy", the two big words "negative" extinguished the young couple's dream of parenting.
Xiaomei cried on the spot, and Dali didn't know how to explain this to his mother.
The two of them embarrassedly boarded the bus and returned home.
The days of pregnancy preparation have passed day by day.
Before we knew it, Xiaomei and Dali ushered in their 6th wedding anniversary.
That night, the two prepared candlelight dinner.
In the two months after
, Xiaomei's menstrual period has not come and she has become much fatter. Moreover, in the past few days, she has been lazy in her mental state and has lost appetite.
These symptoms made her have a hint of doubt:
"Is it because I am pregnant?"
But she didn't dare to say it out, for fear that it would be a misunderstanding again like last time.
So, Xiaomei secretly came to the hospital alone and asked the doctor to help her take a look.
B ultrasound , blood draw, Xiaomei did not wait for the result she wanted, but said bad news from the doctor that made her collapse:
"Your condition should be polycystic ovary syndrome."
"Ah? What does this mean, doctor?"
"Just, Xiaomei was already panicked when she heard this name.
"Yeah... You have to be mentally prepared. If you have this disease, it will be more difficult to get pregnant."
Doctor's words are undoubtedly a cruel verdict.
Xiaomei was unacceptable for a while.
It was not until she got the medicine prescribed by the doctor that she realized that she might have little hope for a child next time.
was surprised, take care of
"Let it go."
mother-in-law also decided not to urge Xiaomei anymore and give her the pressure to prepare for pregnancy.
Xiaomei is very grateful to have such an open-minded mother-in-law.
If it were someone else, she might have been swept out of the house.
Indeed, putting down the burden of pregnancy, the atmosphere of the family has become much more relaxed.
Xiaomei asked a friend to help find a job and start a new life.
focuses on making money and starts to take on some errands that need to go out.
may be because she lacks the worries of seeking a child. Xiaomei's mood is getting more and more relaxed, and her appetite is gradually rising.
I don’t know which day it started, but Xiaomei found that she was getting hungry more and more likely and was still not full after eating.
In this case, after a few months, Xiaomei's face became more and more round, and "fat" began to appear on her belly.
"Husband, I've eaten a lot, I'm fat again."
Xiaomei pointed to her bulging belly and said helplessly.
"People are prone to gain weight when they are middle-aged. They eat too much and digest slowly. They must agree to gain weight."
Dali thought that Xiaomei was just ordinary fat, and did not care too much.
But everything is getting weirder.
Xiaomei found that even if she controlled her mouth for snacks, her belly would still grow bigger and she could not wear any clothes she used to wear.
What's even more outrageous is that in the company, a colleague actually asked her if she was pregnant, and Xiaomei hurriedly denied it in embarrassment.
A few months passed like this. One day, Xiaomei's stomach began to hurt a lot.
At first she could tolerate it, thinking that it might be caused by drinking cold water.
But the next morning, the pain became more and more serious.
Xiaomei, who couldn't help but feel pain, finally called Dali and asked him to accompany her to the hospital.
When he arrived at the emergency room, Xiaomei, who was lying on the hospital bed, was already in pain and could not speak.
The first sentence of the emergency nurse when she saw Xiaomei was:
"How many weeks have you been pregnant?"
"Nurse, don't joke, we have been preparing for pregnancy for ten years, and our stomachs are not moving at all. I have polycystics, so it is impossible to get pregnant."
"How long have you been pregnant?"
nurse continued to ask.
"This...I didn't count, it should...it's been ten months."
Xiaomei thought for a long time and answered hesitantly.
Looking at the growing belly, Xiaomei thought it was because she was middle-aged and had slow metabolism and was prone to gain weight.
Usually she has irregular menstruation, so she doesn’t care much about her menstruation.
Moreover, she had been to the hospital once because of her period, but she found that she had polycystics.
finally let go of her worries about preparing for pregnancy. She didn't want to see a doctor again, so as not to be happy again and disappoint her family.
Hearing Xiaomei's answer, the doctor on duty said he was not good and quickly took Xiaomei to the examination room.
"Intrauterine single live birth, full term pregnancy, breech position."
When the doctor read out the examination results, Xiaomei and Dali beside him shouted happily together.
"Do you feel like fetal movement ?" the doctor
continued to ask.
"What does fetal movement feel like? Oh...yes, it turns out that this is fetal movement. It happened a few months ago, and I have no experience. I thought it was the intestines moving."
Xiaomei is still confused now.
"Really, you are too heartbroken, and you don't know if you are pregnant." The doctor said angrily with a tone of blame.
"Oh my God, my wife is pregnant!" Dali, who had been with Xiaomei, finally recovered at this moment.
The couple is preparing for pregnancy for ten years and have had the test tube twice. The wife also has polycystic ovary syndrome. This sudden "baby" is simply a miracle.
However, before Dali could breathe a sigh of relief, the emergency doctor found that Xiaomei's current condition was not good.
It turned out that Xiaomei had membrane ruptured at 8:40 in the morning, and the amniotic fluid became less after it was lost.
At 12:40 noon, the pregnant woman had paroxysmal abdominal pain.
Now, Xiaomei's cervix has been fully opened.
"Ah? I'm going to give birth soon?"
Xiaomei screamed in fear about the fact that she was about to give birth.
"Don't scream, don't waste your energy, it's okay." The doctor next to
kept encouraging and comforting Xiaomei.
has a thrilling child, and the bitterness is sweet and sweet. However, should pregnant women give birth to , or cesarean child?
According to Xiaomei's current situation, this is her first time pregnant with a baby;
and had a low fever before giving birth, and she was pregnant without knowing it. She only came to the hospital at the last moment. She did not do any prenatal examinations she should have done before.
Xiaomei has now contracted regularly and her uterus has opened her ten fingers.
Her pelvic conditions are normal. If a caesarean section is used, it may increase the risk of postpartum bleeding , postoperative infection, etc.
However, if you give birth naturally, the plum fetus is in breech position.
This abnormal fetal position is manifested in that the fetus will first expose its buttocks when the pregnant woman gives birth.
Vaginal delivery in breech position is prone to joint dislocation in pregnant women, buttock nerve damage, and difficulty in baby emerging.
both horizontal and vertical risks. Although the situation is very difficult, it has reached a critical moment for pregnant women to give birth, and doctors and families must make a decision immediately.
Consultation doctor once again conducted a comprehensive assessment of Xiaomei's situation and suggested that Xiaomei try to give birth naturally.
Xiaomei and her family agreed.
Looking at the operating room, anesthesia department and neonatal department quickly gathered by her side. Xiaomei felt like she was being monitored throughout the process like a baby, and she couldn't help but feel nervous.
The moment she was pushed into the delivery room, her heart was pounding violently.
Next, what will be waiting for Xiaomei? No one can guarantee it.
"Slowly, exhale, inhale, and pay attention to the position of exerting force."
During the delivery process, the midwife patiently taught Xiaomei.
Other medical staff stared at Xiaomei's every move and observed the values of the monitoring instruments.
Although they have been fully prepared, a worrying situation still happened.
"No, the fetus has been delivered too long, and pregnant women must let the fetus produce as soon as possible. "The midwife said anxiously.
At this time, Xiaomei had already developed fatigue and weakness due to the pain for too long.
"Don't give up, cooperate with us well. "
Midwife kept encouraging Xiaomei.
Seeing that the pregnant woman and the fetus were not optimistic, the chief physician in charge of this delivery task decided to use professional techniques such as blocking buttocks, delivery buttocks, delivery shoulders, delivery heads to Xiaomei in time.
Time passed minute by minute, and the atmosphere inside and outside the delivery room was very anxious.
As if he had experienced endless waiting, finally, hope came.
"Wow——" A loud baby cry passed through the delivery room. At 9:44 that night, a 3180-gram-weight boy was born.
Everyone's heart was finally able to let go.
Facing the wrinkled baby lying beside him, Xiaomei couldn't help but hold her hand and hug her.
She never expected that the baby she had been thinking about for many years would appear in her life in this way.
postscript
Xiaomei's childbirth The experience really made the medical staff present sweat for her.
They felt that Xiaomei was too ignorant. They found that she had no menstruation and her belly became bigger for a long time, but they didn't come to the hospital to take a look.
The doctor entered the ward and wanted to "educate" this "confused mother" with unknown conditions.
However, as soon as they walked into the door, everyone felt that they should forget it when they saw Xiaomei's face's joyful expression, they said.
At least, the mother and son were safe this time, and there was no danger.
Thinking of her experience of seeking a child over the years, Xiaomei couldn't help but smile bitterly.
It's simply "I'm willing to plant flowers but not bloom, but I'm unconscious to plant willows and willows to make shade."
However, now it seems that everything is the best arrangement.
References
Global Network "A woman in Zhejiang has not been pregnant for ten years but has not been pregnant for the child. She went to the hospital for abdominal pain, but the doctor said she was about to give birth"
Beiwan Online "A woman in pregnancy has not been pregnant for 10 years but has not been pregnant for the child. She has been pregnant for abdominal pain, but the doctor said she is about to give birth"
