I seem to be sick, and I often have Mao Dun’s psychology and split personality in my children. He clearly loves him deeply and cannot stand anyone bullying him, but sometimes he can't control himself hysterically.
Sometimes when you see those sick children who accidentally become little angels, they secretly tell themselves that no matter whether the child is excellent or not, as long as he grows up safely. When he was sick, he felt that it was not important to study and grow up healthily, but when his test scores were not ideal, he blamed him for not studying hard and not being able to do his best.
can't bear to let him grow up, and he is afraid of delaying his growth.
Rather than saying that we love our children deeply, it is better to say that only children will love us unconditionally. They have no requirements for us and make any conditions. But we always make demands on them, sometimes we can’t do it ourselves, but we ask our children to do it! This kind of happy and lost complex mood, this collapsed and perverted mentality, may only be able to deeply understand it by becoming a mother!
