For men, sex life is a normal physiological need, especially for some young men, the demand will be greater.
There are many folk sayings. When a woman becomes pregnant, in order to ensure the healthy development of the fetus, some women may ask their husbands to abstinence, and some people think that it is okay to have sex appropriately at certain stages of the pregnancy.
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So, what should I do if my husband has an idea during pregnancy? Under what circumstances must I stop having sex?
Healthy women can have sex during pregnancy
From a medical theory, healthy women can have sex during pregnancy.
Harmonious sex life not only consolidates the relationship between husband and wife, but is also beneficial to the growth and development of the fetus (making love can promote uterine blood circulation, transport more oxygen and nutrients, which is beneficial to fetal health). Proper sex in the late pregnancy can also help to give birth.
1 3 months in the early pregnancy, be sure to hold back, 3 months in the early pregnancy, fetal development is very unstable, is prone to factors such as having a strong life stimulation and causing miscarriage. Be careful when having sex.
1 3 months in the middle of pregnancy, which can be properly resolved. fetus has stabilized in the uterus, the risk of miscarriage has decreased, and you can have sex moderately.
13 months in the late pregnancy, don’t have sex, , especially the last month, is close to delivery, the uterus is more sensitive, Once contraction is severe, it may cause premature birth of the baby and even threaten the baby’s life.
Pay attention to these 5 points during pregnancy
1. Pay attention to personal hygiene
Before having sex, both parties wash their lower bodies and hands (to prevent contact with the genitals from causing bacterial infection). Afterwards, the woman urinated in time and washed her lower body again to eliminate residual semen and vaginal secretions in the vulva and keep the local clean and hygienic.
2. Foreplay relief appropriately
Some pregnant women will experience abdominal distension and even uterine contractions after nipples are irritated. Avoid excessive caressing of the breast, especially the nipples. At the same time, you cannot caress the vagina with your fingers. At this time, the woman is more susceptible to bacteria than before pregnancy.
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3. Avoid abdominal compression
As the fetus increases, the belly will gradually bulge, and the abdominal pressure should be avoided. The key is to adopt a suitable sexual position: the man is on top and the woman is on the lower side - the man uses his arms to support the upper body; the woman is on top - he can sit on the man's thigh; lying on the side - the woman lies in front and back and lying on the same side, and the penis enters from behind.
4. The movements should not be intense
The movements should be gentle and gentle during sexual intercourse. The man should not insert too deep or twitch too hard to prevent excessive mechanical stimulation. If the stomach is inconvenient to move, the woman will only cooperate statically without exerting force. If necessary, she should control orgasm to prevent accidental miscarriage or premature birth.
5. Master the appropriate frequency
The number of sexual intercourse has no absolute correlation with miscarriage and premature birth. As long as the pregnant woman's physical constitution is permitted and the couple is well coordinated, the frequency of sexual intercourse can be determined by herself. However, in the early and late stages of pregnancy, it is necessary to properly regulate sexual intercourse, and the time should not exceed 10 minutes each time.
In addition, semen contains prostaglandin that causes uterine contraction. For pregnant women with sensitive constitution, the husband should wear a condom during sexual intercourse to avoid accidents caused by semen entering the vagina.
Husband should do this
Husband should actively cooperate with doctors’ suggestions on abstinence. At the same time, you should not have any resentment towards your wife (she was absolutely necessary), but should be more caring, considerate and caring than before. Of course, it is not easy for a young and middle-aged man to completely suppress sexual desire for a long time.
Therefore, husbands should strengthen their own cultivation and think more about their wives and babies, especially to learn to be self-liberate. You can try the following methods:
1. Participate in sports
If you have sexual impulses, you can go outdoors to play ball, run, swim, or take a cold shower, or do some physical work. Through the all-round transfer of the brain, body and heart, to distract your attention from the sexual, especially to sweat appropriately, which can vent your excess energy.
2. Listen to music and read books and newspapers
You may as well listen to various music you like or read books and newspapers about political current affairs, social news, professional technology, pregnancy health care and scientific parenting that you care about, so as to divert attention and relax your sexual nerves and effectively forget your sexual desire.
3. Find more friends to communicate with
Actively participate in clubs, social or cultural and sports activities, enrich your spare time, promote psychological balance, maintain spiritual excitement, and help avoid or eliminate sexual impulses.
4. Eliminate stimulation and temptation
consciously resists sexual provocation, low-level vulgarity and unhealthy films or reading materials. These things are undoubtedly a fire for people who are prone to sexual impulsiveness and should break up with them.
5. Sleep in a temporary bed
In addition to reducing the usual love words and excessive intimate actions, sleep alone with your wife if necessary, and minimize physical contact, which is of great help to inhibit sexual agitation.
Finally emphasized: "When you have any situation during pregnancy and you are unable to make up your mind, you should go to the hospital decisively and let the doctor help you make a judgment."
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