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bored and brushed Douban... one after another "screaming".
Why are there so many people living in the feudal brainless cage in this world?
Four rooms in the house, there is a room for playing games for my younger brother, and a room for the nanny who cares for my second younger brother, but she can only sleep on the sofa all year round?
is really funny.
is afraid of cockroaches in the living room and never dares to wear pajamas. It is like an animal sleeping on the sofa and being watched...
This so-called mother really doesn't know that girls need their own private space?
"Often daughters can't write them into the genealogy"
genealogy my god! What's this idea! What era is this!
I remembered a sentence I saw before: The word "brother"... makes me very disgusted.
At that time, I couldn't understand or thought it was too much. Now... maybe it's because I haven't experienced their suffocation.
I have also heard of:
"What does prefer boys over girls mean"
"It's just that the heavy boys take it, the light girl takes it"
I have also heard it:
"As for bias, we don't worry about being weak but not being equal, the leader is biased to change jobs, the husband is biased to change husbands, the best friend is biased to change best friend, the parents are biased to not give up, what are you waiting for? Do you touch China?"
To be honest, as a woman, I really don't want to be a boy-to-girl mother who values boys over girls, I really don't want to be a boy-to-girl mother. Can understand...
are both women, why can't you give your daughter more love and care (oh no, you don't need to be too much, just be equal to your baby son)
Some tips for the "daughter" in a family that prefers boys over girls:
1. Keep your mind flat
If they can't change, but we can, we are still young, and everything is still in time. With the popularity of education, we have also received more education and cutting-edge ideas. From this generation on, we have abandoned the idea of favoring boys over girls and not harming the next generation.
2. Reconcile with yourself
Now, if you do not have the ability to be financially independent, please read the book badly. Only in this way can you stay away from the abyss.
Don’t have any hope for such a "home", just be what a daughter should do.
Continuously improve your cognition. If you cannot change others, change yourself.
3. The psychological and physical distance is far away from
primitive family, we cannot choose. If we cannot change it, if we are powerless, if we are very suffocating... Then try our best to stay away!
"Fudi Mad Demon"
"Spend all your savings to buy a house for your younger brother"
"Give your spending life with your younger brother"
"Give your parents who only love your younger brother's pua"
"Great your parents who only love your younger brother's old age and will think of you"
If you are not far away, you may encounter any of the above.
If you can go to a larger city, try to stay in a big city when you go to a first-tier city, because once you go back to your small place, what is waiting for you is an abyss.
4. Reject Moral kidnapping (key point)
Some parents will blindly squeeze girls and exploit girls. If a girl is unwilling to do it, she will say that she is selfish and only for herself...
Please remember, please love yourself, otherwise you will find that everyone will hurt you.
Don’t feel that there is no love. You will have more people who love you, you will have friends who love you, him who love you, your children, and many people who love you.
