Since you were born, you longed to be cared for by your mother, hoping to be protected and cared for.
Every time I sleep, my head always faces my mother's side. Sleeping in my mother's arms is particularly sweet and sometimes makes giggle.
When you grow up a little, as long as you don’t see your mother, you will cry and smile when you see your mother. It seems that I have become accustomed to the protection of my mother being around me.
Every child desires the love of his parents, and the most anticipated is to be protected by his mother.
When our children grow up to be able to speak, they simply call out mom, we are very happy as mothers! But there will be many ups and downs on the baby's growth.
When we need to be held in our arms and need to be supervised at all times, it is because we feel that the baby is particularly fragile. We are working hard to protect ourselves. When our children learn to stand up and start walking by themselves, we, as parents, feel like they are "suddenly" liberated! Actually, it’s not, our revolution has just begun.
As I watched the baby move forward from shaking and stumble forward, I seemed to feel very happy, but of course it was indispensable. If I was not careful, the baby fell and his nose was blue and swollen. Parents watched his child hurt him, wishing that he could bear the sin of growth for his children, but he could not. But as parents and elders, we can still prevent our children in advance in some aspects and at some times? For example, tell him to walk with confidence, run slowly, and see if there are any cars on the road...
In addition to telling his baby to prevent dangers and protect himself, how should we deal with it when people around him give the baby danger?
Sometimes when facing intimidation and threats from people around me, as a mother, I feel it is very difficult to deal with. My relatives and friends around me come to the house to tease my baby, and sometimes say that you are doing so, I don’t want you anymore, sometimes you have to beat you with a stick, sometimes you criticize it harshly, sometimes the baby does something that makes adults angry, punishes and scolds the baby...
Facing many unfriendly to my baby, as a mother, I treat my baby like this, and I feel really uncomfortable inside. I understand that my baby is also extremely disappointed at this moment, and I really long for the protection of others, especially the closest person I have recently. The child must be very collapsed deep in his heart. Sometimes he will cry and call him the person he is closest to.
is the closest person, how do you deal with it?
In the countryside, some mothers-in-law have no more time to patiently listen to their babies’ feelings. Either we escape from such an atmosphere, or let the baby vent it, and then they will not provide emotional counsel for the baby. It feels that raising children is still very old-fashioned. When they encounter naughty and don’t listen to them, they still deal with it violently.
Sometimes when you think about being able to patiently comfort your baby’s injured heart, thinking about facing so many things that make your baby feel scared, thinking about protecting your baby, but when facing your loved ones, you really don’t have the courage to win the right to speak for your baby. Finally, as a mother, I have been silent many times. In the end, I felt very uncomfortable.
I am really disappointed with myself, sad for being a parent, and the baby is really wronged. I chose this home as the starting point for my growth, destined to be lonely, destined to be inferior, and destined to have a bumpy relationship for a lifetime.
I hope every child can get the protection of his mother and relatives, and have more laughter and less sorrow on the road to growth!
