Speaking of reliance on parents, everyone may have their own opinions and definitions. However, with the development and changes of today's society, a new type of leniency is spreading. What’s scary is that many elderly people know nothing about this and even think that their children are excellent.
Recently, there were news reports that a boy has not gone out to work after graduating from college, claiming to be preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination at home. However, after three years of exams, he still failed. He was asked to go out to work, so he was on the grounds that his education was not high and his competitiveness was not sufficient. At the beginning, my family was very supportive of his postgraduate entrance examination. After all, higher education is not only easier to find a job, but also a further study in life. So my family has always been very supportive and never put pressure on him. But recently, parents found that the boy seemed to be studying, but in fact he was indulging himself. Whenever the door opens and enters the child's room, he pretends to be studying. But as soon as the door was closed, the child started playing games again. I believe there must be such examples around you. Now many people regard the postgraduate entrance examination and the public exam as an excuse to evade work, and eat and drink at home, without considering work or making money. When you have no money, you ask your parents for it, and this is obviously a dependent on your parents.
These children have a good grasp of their parents’ love for their children, and they are good at leveraging their parents’ true meaning in their name. Some people are preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination and taking the public exam, while others are constantly asking the elderly for money in the name of entrepreneurship. There are many people who are lying to start their own business and ask parents to sell houses to support them. It would be fine if I really paid, but many people just use this as an excuse to ask their parents for money. They enjoyed their parents' support, but did not make corresponding efforts, but just used it as an excuse to not work. Parents are often kept in the dark, thinking that their children are very motivated and excellent. And isn’t this a kind of sorrow?
It is undeniable that it is indeed difficult for society to find a good job today. This year's data also shows that the youth unemployment rate is very high, and unemployment after graduation has even become a common phenomenon. The overall environment is not good, and everyone is struggling to walk. Under such circumstances, it is understandable that young people choose to further their studies and take the civil service exam. But if you still ignore other possibilities after repeated failures, it is obviously an escape. Moreover, this kind of escape will not only continue to emptiate the elderly’s savings and the enthusiasm of their parents, but will also make young people less and less able to integrate into society and become less and less able to survive.
In fact, whether it is on the grounds of entrepreneurship or the excuse of taking the postgraduate entrance examination, it is essentially lying on the parents. The giant baby who relied on his parents must be behind him who was unwilling to wean him. We will find that many parents have one problem, that is, they love their children too deeply. So much so that after the child became old, he still couldn't let go completely. But children who have always been held in their hands will never learn to grow up. What is responsibility, responsibility, gratitude, and independence cannot be learned.
If you have such a child around you, or your child is like this, you need to think about it carefully. After all, continuing to drag on is not the best ending for both parents and children. Hope it can bring some help and inspiration to everyone.
