For many girls nowadays, the little bird dependent on others shown by falling in love with their boyfriends before getting married is the most touching thing for men. It seems that as long as all women show weakness, they will definitely take the magic weapon of being a woman, making men's desire for protection stronger.
After getting married, the couple has children, and their personalities change again. Men become more and more domineering and listen to their wives. Women become stronger and more domineering and become the backbone of the entire family. Of course, the reason why women do this in many cases is because of their life and environment.
As the saying goes, "A woman is weak, but a mother is strong!" It means that women are originally gentle and as water, they will become stronger when they encounter the suppression of life. Moreover, the patience shown is incomparable to men.
I am "Brother Zheng Watching Life". I will track social hot spots with you, feel the lives of the people, and interpret the various aspects of the world.
1
On October 18, a young mother with three children in a hospital in Qinzhou, Guangxi was photographed by a netizen, which made many netizens feel incredible. Why is this mother so "superman"? Even a man may not be able to do it.
From the picture, you can see that a young mother was holding a little baby in her arms. An infusion needle was inserted into the baby's head, while the young mother was holding an infusion rod in one hand. At first I thought it was her baby with her infusion, but I didn’t expect that it was three later.
Soon, two boys came down from the hospital bed, and each of them had an infusion needle inserted on their arms. Only then did everyone see that it was a young mother with three babies in the hospital for infusion. I have to say that such behavior is so superb!
At first, netizens who took the filming left a message saying: "His husband doesn't care, grandma doesn't care, and husband doesn't give money. Grandpa helps her. Usually, she relies on making handicrafts and growing vegetables to sell them to maintain it. Without posing, she has taken the child to get injections in the hospital for almost a week. I see herself every day, and today I just take a photo."
When everyone saw this, they knew that it was indeed a single mother, a woman who was abandoned by a man, and she took three children alone, so she became so strong. If there was a man around me, I believe the mother would not be so busy and would take three children to inject in the hospital.
A Shanxi netizen even posted a message like this: "The great mother, apart from feeling sorry for this mother, I don't know what to say. Men make money outside every day, thinking that they are too much, and they don't see how tired women are at home to take care of their children. They also have to take care of the family's three meals a day. It's too difficult!"
Nowadays, the reason why professional women in many cities often sit on an equal footing with men after getting married is that they have their own jobs and careers, so they never rely on men in terms of financial situations, and some even earn more than men. And they often only have one child and don’t want to have another child.
The reason is that women have too much time to give birth. Even if the country relaxes the second and third-child policies, some professional women have no time to take care of having children. What's more, having one more child is more distracting. It is often not easy to take care of one child as an adult, let alone two or three children.
. After getting married, these women at the bottom still hold the idea of having more children and blessings, so they move forward on the road to having children. But in the end they consume their own youth, but what they receive is the abandonment and ignorance of men. Of course, excessive living costs are also the biggest obstacle to having children.
It is understandable for women to like children, but how to raise children is another problem. Don’t say that children have been stumbling since childhood and can’t take care of themselves when they encounter illness or something. Even if you grow up safely, it is a considerable expense to cultivate children to become successful in studying.
Children in the city have to receive various specialty training classes since kindergarten, and cram schools are indispensable when they grow up.These have become the most important expenses for a family. The couple earns only enough money to pay the children the cost of cram school and special classes.
When a boy grows up, he won’t talk about going to college. Just getting married and starting a family is a big expense. You have to have a house or a car, and you have to spend the bride price. One million yuan for a boy is far from enough. You can't afford to have more children unless the family is a rich second-generation and has a family business!
So, some netizens believe that smart women are not about how many children they have given birth, but how to make money by themselves and be financially independent so that they can gain the respect of men. Even if you live with a child alone, you won’t be too short of it and you will be able to make a living by selling vegetables.
. Blindly giving birth is just to treat yourself as a childbirth machine. Men will not feel sorry for you and will despise you. In the end, the money you earned is given to the mistress and lover, but the child is thrown to the woman to raise him by himself. This is the biggest joke and irony.
If it is really as shown on the web page, when you see such a mother being ignored by her husband and living with three children alone, it is better to break up with the man as soon as possible, sentence the two children to the man, and live with the youngest baby. I believe that after experiencing the drag, she will understand that only when there are fewer and more eugenic students can she truly be happy for a lifetime. Everyone said, right?
