Many parents cannot take care of their children due to work reasons, so they can only let their grandparents take care of them. However, there are many disadvantages for the elderly to raise children, and education is the biggest problem.
The life experience of the elderly determines their moral standards, and their self-requirement is really not high. However, a child is a piece of white paper, and he will grow as much as you draw. What can children learn under the influence of the elderly?
When the child has not yet had the ability to judge, parents will learn how they do it; if they are a little older, they find that the parents' practices are different from those of school education. They want to correct them, but the power is too small, so parents don't take it seriously.
At the door of a hotel in Tianjin, an old man and his grandson were blocking a wedding car. If he didn't give a red envelope, he would not let others pass. The grandson was so anxious that he kept pulling his grandmother back.
The old man is very old, wearing cotton coats and cotton pants, and it is a bit difficult to walk. He also brings a little boy of five or six years old.
Knowing that the hotel was going to hold a wedding, the old man waited at the door in advance. When he saw the wedding car coming, he immediately pulled his grandson and blocked the way of the convoy.
The old man and the new man don’t know each other, but I heard that someone else asked for red envelopes to stop a wedding car, and I wanted to do this too. He didn't even care about the bad impact on the child, so he took his grandson away.
The groom and the bride did not want to spoil the old man's behavior, so they stopped the car and planned to persuade the old man to leave before passing.
Although the newcomer didn't get off the bus, his relatives and friends couldn't sit idly by. A group of people surrounded him and persuaded the old man in a verbal way, and let it go if he wanted to give her a bag of wedding candy.
The old man looked down on wedding candy at all and insisted on giving red envelopes. Everyone was accusing the elderly of their behavior, but the elderly were unmoved and insisted on not giving in.
At this time, the bridesmaid came out of the car and pointed at the old man domineeringly and scolded her, asking her to leave quickly, otherwise she would be polite.
The little boy understood the adult conversation and knew that his grandmother was doing something wrong. He was so anxious that he tried his best to pull his grandmother back, trying to pull his grandmother away. But the strength is too small and I can't pull it.
At this time, Grandma Xi rushed over and wanted to get a red envelope from her bag to the old man. She was stopped by the bridesmaids and others, and she was determined not to indulge the old man's behavior.
Passers-by persuaded the elderly, even the children knew that this was not good, and at least set an example for the children.
The bridesmaid's stern scolding, the passerby's kind persuasion, and the grandson's strong stopping finally made the old man lose. He knew that he could not get a good deal, so he pulled his grandson away.
Someone took this scene and posted it online, which immediately aroused the attention and heated discussion among netizens.
comments from netizens
Some netizens commented that children are more sensible than the elderly. If the daughter-in-law knows this, will she still dare to let the mother-in-law take care of the children?
Some netizens also commented that the bridesmaids did the right thing, and they can’t be spoiled by such things.
There are also netizens who commented that when I followed someone to pick up the bride, I also encountered someone who stopped the car and asked for red envelopes. It was blocked for half an hour and almost made the person very anxious.
Editor's opinion
People's wedding event is auspicious, and they will also let go of wedding candy when they see strangers, and share the joy. But what if someone you don’t know stops a car and asks for red envelopes?
The old man took his grandson with him and did not consider the impact of his behavior on his grandson at all. As long as he could get a advantage, he couldn't even bear it anymore and pulled her away.
Newcomers are unwilling to indulge in this behavior. Although they can solve the problem immediately, they will cause bad trends, so they would rather be stalemate than give in.
In the end, the old man didn't ask for money. He probably would be a little more restrained in the future and would not want to make bad ideas.
