A person makes various choices every day, some of which are small, such as choosing their favorite breakfast at the aromatic breakfast shop. Some choices are more important, such as choosing your own future partner.
For pregnant mothers, choosing the right delivery method is very important. It is related to their childbirth experience and more importantly to the safety of the fetus. There has always been a lot of controversy about the choice of method for childbirth.
Some people insist that is better for , and that after the mother is born, she can get out of bed and eat immediately, and recover quickly after giving birth.
In addition, babies who have been squeezed through the birth canal will have stronger physical qualities. However, some people have seen the "sewments" of natural birth, vaginal relaxation, urine leakage, uterine prolapse , etc., as well as the unpredictable risks encountered by natural birth mothers and fetuses, and insist that caesarean section is better, safe, and does not affect the life of postpartum couples.
Before giving birth, pregnant mother Weiwei had a very unhappy relationship with her family because of the problem of choosing the delivery method. As a young pregnant mother born in the 1995s, Vivi has his own opinions. Although her family members have objected, they must insist on caesarean section.
But the mother-in-law thinks that Vivi is unwilling to give birth naturally because she "can't endure hardship" . The recovery of natural birth is fast, and it does not affect the time of the time to have a second child. The benefits are much more than caesarean section.
Just like that, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were having a big fight over the choice of childbirth, and Vivi's husband was in a dilemma between them.
In fact, from the bottom of my heart, Weiwei's husband hopes that Weiwei can give birth naturally, because he doesn't want his wife to "be stabbed" in the belly, and he feels it's too hard.
On the day of delivery, Weiwei's husband was hesitating whether to sign the caesarean section consent form, which also angered the pregnant mother Weiwei. She was so angry that she revealed the reason why she was unwilling to give birth naturally, and her husband could not refute it after hearing it.
It turns out that Vivi would rather choose to have a caesarean section than choose a natural birth, which is her own consideration.
First of all, Weiwei thinks that her body is too petite, and her pelvis is narrower and she is prone to dying childbirth.
followed by . After Weiwei's mother gave birth naturally, she left many sequelae. When she was old, she would even leak urine even if she sneezes on . Vivi is very reluctant to follow her mother's old path. She feels that her physical health is the most important.
Finally, Weiwei heard that after a natural birth, there may be a problem of discord between a woman and her husband. She does not want to affect her husband's relationship because of having a child.
After hearing Vivi reveal the "hidden truth" behind her unwillingness to give birth, her husband also understood his wife's concerns and no longer refuted it. He signed his name on the family consent form for the caesarean section.
In the eyes of many older generations, the first choice for mothers is natural birth. women who are unwilling to give birth naturally will be labeled as "pretentious" and "spicy".
In fact, in terms of choosing the delivery method, there is no good or bad one. It depends entirely on your physical condition and the state of the fetus.
Caesarean section is actually not as "evil" as everyone imagines. In some cases, it may be a relatively wise choice for a mother to choose a caesarean section.
Natural delivery is not the only choice. Caesarean section is becoming more and more popular among young pregnant women. There are several reasons for the following
Own physical condition does not allow
like Vivi, a pregnant woman with a small skeleton and thin body, also understands that she has inexplicable fear of natural delivery.
There is a best friend who is only 150 cm tall and weighs less than 90 kilograms. It was not until the late stage of pregnancy that her weight barely exceeded 100.
At that time, she was also worried about whether to give birth or a caesarean section before giving birth, but in the end, because the pelvis was too narrow and the fetus could not pass, she had to pass through the passage and suffered two serious crimes.
If this best friend had realized her physical condition earlier and communicated directly with the doctor to choose a caesarean section, maybe she would not have had to go through so many "tribulations".
Pregnant mothers take their physical condition into account and choose to have a caesarean section. In fact, this is a manifestation of being responsible for oneself and the fetus.
In addition to being weak and pregnant mothers are overweight and have pregnancy complications, such as hypertension and , it is not advisable to give birth naturally.
When communicating with a doctor before delivery, this type of pregnant mother should clearly understand the true situation of her body and not force herself to give birth naturally. Caesarean section is actually a good choice for delivery.
Afraid of a distortion of body shape after childbirth
Many mothers found that after natural delivery, even after physical delivery, even if their weight returned to prenatal birth, their figure still couldn't get back. This is because the process of pregnancy and natural birth will cause the pregnant mother's pelvis to expand and the hips to widen. This is also one of the reasons why many women's "girl feeling" disappear after giving birth.
Women love beauty and there is nothing good to "criticize". If pregnant mothers are afraid of their figure distorted, they can also communicate with the doctor and choose a caesarean section.
Afraid of the dissonance of the couple's relationship after giving birth, especially after normal delivery, many pregnant mothers will find that their husband's life has been affected. This has a certain relationship with the damage to pelvic floor muscles and during pregnancy and natural delivery.
Although both mothers who have caesarean section and mothers who have natural births will be damaged, , the damage level of the former is definitely much lower than that of the latter.
This is also why many women experience embarrassing problems such as urine leakage and uterine prolapse after natural delivery. This is inseparable from the damage to the pelvic floor muscles of .
There are many roles for women, they are not only the mothers of children, but also the wife of husbands. In the life of a couple, if both parties lack a sense of pleasure, the relationship between the couple will be affected in the long run.
Therefore, many mothers are worried that having children affects their lives, so they choose a delivery method that has less damage to the pelvic floor muscles.
Parenting Message
Pregnancy and having a child is a very difficult process. When pregnant women in the family have their own tendency to give birth, as family members, especially husbands, they need to give them more understanding and care.
In fact, whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, as long as the child can be born smoothly in the end and the mother is safe, it is the luckiest.
Pregnant mothers don’t have to worry too much about the delivery method. They just need to cooperate with the doctor, and the doctor will generally give professional advice and guidance.
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