Raising children is the top priority of every family. As children grow up, what they need is not only the care of their parents, but from their education.
As the saying goes, parents are the enlightenment mentors of their children. With the guidance of their parents, the road of life will be smooth.
In terms of tutoring, you must be more cautious about your children. Because women's physical and emotional characteristics will encounter more dangers on the road of life, parents should be prepared in advance and establish correct values in their children.
Only in this way can she have greater protection in her life.
If you have a girl, then tell her as soon as possible and avoid these three things.
1. Forbid her to have close contact with anyone.
. Girls are fragile. Everyone knows this, but how to teach girls to defend themselves has become a lesson that parents have never learned.
Chinese people have always been conservative in terms of sex and don’t know what to do. They just said ambiguously that they are not allowed to touch their bodies, nor do they do anything strange to strangers with strangers.
However, they have never told the child who can't do it and who are not considered strangers. What's more, he has to be wary of strangers.
Information from relevant departments shows that in cases of child injuries, 80% are aware of them, including parents, classmates, neighbors, teachers, etc.
Simply letting children be wary of strangers is not enough to ensure the safety of children.
Sexual learning is not an embarrassing thing. Letting children learn how to defend themselves is not an indispensable education. If you refuse to teach a child, you will be told in the worst way one day, and then you will find that everything is too late.
2. Don’t care too much about other people’s criticism.
In online novels, there is a very touching blogger. There is a black birthmark around her left eye, which is difficult for people to ignore.
But in the eyes of others, she is an ugly woman. She successfully became a successful model with her own struggle and confidence. There was a black birthmark on her eyes, making her the most special person in the world.
She said, "I have a mole, but it doesn't affect my beauty." I think it will be painful for her to change step by step, but she has turned herself into an enviable woman. Even if there is a huge mole on her face, her beauty cannot be ignored.
Tall, short, fat and thin are all elegant, not appearance. But some people often fail in the outside world's evaluation of them, and use what others say as a measure of themselves, and end up with such a miserable ending.
A woman with perseverance and rationality will not be shaken by others' comments. She knows how she should live. She has a strong heart and her life will be better.
3. People who can have their own ideas can achieve great things
A person with his own opinions is not following the trend or following the trend, but has his own thoughts and principles.
In today's era, information is becoming more and more abundant, and many things are placed in front of us, so many people cannot distinguish them. They only know how to listen to others, but they see different things and cannot establish their own fixed values.
This former colleague has always been proud of being positive, diligent and studious. At first, she was told that writing could make money, so she decided to learn to write. She learned an expensive course and practiced for several days, but found it really difficult to write an article.
Later, she heard that this industry was very popular and she made a lot of money, so she spent several thousand yuan to register the industry, but not long after, she heard that this industry was in difficulty, so she gave up.
