Nowadays children have grown up with the care of their parents since childhood. In order to allow their children to have a more unforgettable birthday, many parents have also started preparing variously since the first half month of their children's birthday.
From the age of various gifts to prepare for children, from the various foods to eat on their children's birthday, parents will carefully consider it.
Some parents think that they should celebrate their birthdays in the Gregorian calendar. The Gregorian calendar is relatively accurate, while others think that they should follow traditions and celebrate their birthdays in the lunar calendar. The lunar calendar is the calendar invented by our ancestors. So, which one should I go through? Let’s take a look at the pros and cons of the birthdays of the solar and lunar calendar together!
First, let’s learn about the solar calendar and lunar calendar respectively
[What is the solar calendar? 】
Gregorian calendar is the full name of Solar calendar . It is a common calendar for most countries, regions and nations in the world today, so it is also called "Gregorian calendar".
Gregorian calendar is formulated based on the law of the earth orbiting the sun. It determines the time it takes for the earth to circle the sun as an return year .
Regression year is the basic cycle of the solar calendar. The start of this cycle is set to 365 days. Later, it was determined to be 365 days, 5 hours, 48 minutes and 48 seconds after precision calculation, which is about 365 days, 2422 days.
【What is the lunar calendar? 】
The full name of the lunar calendar is "Tailunar calendar" or "pure lunar calendar". The lunar calendar is based on the cycle of changes in the moon, that is, lunar month . Because the ancients called the moon "Taiyin", it is called the "Tailun calendar", and is abbreviated as the "Lunar calendar". The exact date of the lunar calendar is difficult to determine, but according to a page in the oracle bone inscriptions, the lunar calendar has been quite popular in the Yin Dynasty.
The main characteristics of the lunar calendar are: the length of the calendar month is determined based on the astronomical phenomena, that is, the phases of the moon. On the 30th day of the big month and the 29th day of the small month, the average value of the calendar month is roughly equal to the average length of the new moon and the 5306th day.
Is it better to have a "lunar calendar" or a "galaxy" birthday? Parents don’t care, they pay much attention to
. Gregorian birthday is more urbanized
The Gregorian birthday mentioned in young people is actually what has only become popular in modern times in our lives today. The birthday of the Gregorian calendar is actually the date on our ID card.
Young mothers in many cities prefer their birthdays to the Gregorian birthdays. This is not only easy to remember, but also more urban, which is also a manifestation of catching up with the trend.
. Lunar calendar birthday is more accurate
For most Chinese people, birthdays are still lunar birthdays, especially the older generation. China’s long-standing culture of five thousand years is deeply rooted in their minds. Whether it is a birthday or a daily calendar, I am accustomed to memorizing the lunar calendar.
For the elderly, celebrating their lunar birthday is on the one hand to follow traditions, letting children remember their lunar birthdays, and at the same time cultivating their children's folk consciousness.
On the other hand, I believe that celebrating my lunar birthday is more "accurate", and I can clearly know my " birthday, horoscope ", and even mentioned " horoscope fortune telling ".
In fact, for families that attach more importance to tradition, it is recommended to celebrate the lunar calendar and birthday for the children. On the one hand, it can enhance children's understanding of traditional Chinese culture, and on the other hand, it can also make the elderly happy.
3. Under special circumstances, the solar calendar is indeed better
As many people say, when the date of the child's birth happens to meet the leap month, it is really hard to grasp, which leap birthday is better.
Moreover, there are some special circumstances that force parents to celebrate their children's birthday in the Gregorian calendar.
For example, I saw a parent online saying that his child is on the second day of the leap month of the ninth month, and it only takes one turn once a hundred years.If you want to pass the lunar calendar, you have to wait 100 years before you can reach 2 years old.
Although this parent is a little naughty, he is also helpless. Although the lunar calendar is traditional, sometimes it makes people laugh and cry.
4. How to conveniently pass
Regarding choosing a solar calendar or a lunar calendar, parents don’t have to worry too much, just choose according to their personal needs. Whether it is the Gregorian birthday or the lunar calendar, there is not much difference, it is just a birthday.
If you really don’t know whether to celebrate your child’s birthday in the Gregorian calendar or the lunar calendar, it’s better to let it go and see which day is convenient.
In fact, no matter which birthday you are for your child, the focus is to celebrate the child's growth again. As the child grows older, you can understand that the day you are born is the mother's goodbye day. At the same time, children should also feel the kindness of their parents' raising and learn to understand and be considerate of their parents.
Note: If parents are not sure what birthday to celebrate for their children, they want to get the accurate answer.
In fact, the answer is relatively simple. Parents may as well ask their children and let them make their own decisions. Children will give the lunar calendar if they want to do the lunar calendar, and use the lunar calendar if they want to do the lunar calendar. Don’t be too entangled.
Whether you pass the lunar calendar or the solar calendar, grasp these points to make your child's birthday more meaningful
. Make your child's birthday a thanksgiving day
Some people say that the child's birthday is the mother's goodbye day, and this is not unreasonable. Mothers are pregnant for ten months, have children, and experience physical and psychological tests, and some even pay the price of their lives.
Children are growing up day by day, from babies waiting to be fed to growing up day by day, gradually becoming sensible, which brings together the sweat and hard work of their parents. Mom and Dad should let their children know what we have done, let their children understand the hardships of life, and let their children know the kindness and nurturing of their parents.
Before the child’s birthday, we can tell the children about the joy and difficulties of raising children, and talk to them about the pressure and development of life and work. Let children understand, understand, and be grateful to their parents.
. Take photos as a souvenir
Children grow up differently at different ages. On the day of their children's birthday, you can take your children to take photos and make photos of their children's birthdays into a photo album.
When the child grows up, even when the child gets married, he plays it at the wedding to give the child a gift. I believe this is also a very interesting parent-child gift.
When children take photos, they can also let the children write their annual birthday wishes or birthday wishes behind the photos or in their own albums. When the child grows up, you will look back and you will know your growth experience.
. Don’t waste
Some parents pay attention to comparison. Whenever their children celebrate their birthday, they will waste a lot of things extravagantly. Not only is it wasted time and energy, but also a waste of money.
The most important thing is to instill negative ideas in children of comparison and show-off, which is really unsatisfactory for their children's future development. Therefore, parents must not do this again.
4. Write a letter to your children
In fact, children also yearn for their parents to write letters to themselves, but it is not popular now, and many parents are embarrassed to write. But if you can really write a letter to your child and write down what you can't say, the child will feel a lot when he sees it.
And these letters are a kind of parent-child communication. Even if the child grows up, as long as they pick up these letters, they will understand the good intentions of their parents towards them.
