Some people say that dad takes care of his children and just live. In fact, no one is born to take care of children. It is the first time that everyone is a father or a mother, but it is just not attentive.
Raising children is not an easy task, and the child is not the mother's child alone. Dad should take the initiative to share some responsibilities and enhance father-son family affection.
The reason why some mothers feel tired of raising children is because of the long-term absence of the role of father, which makes them feel that they are experiencing widowed parenting.
A young father in Guangyuan, Sichuan, was only concerned about playing games, allowing children less than one year old to cry until their voices were hoarse. Passers-by couldn't bear to remind them, but they were rolled their eyes instead.
It turned out that the couple ran a cafe, located in a residential house facing the street. The cafe was separated into two parts, living inside and open outside.
Usually the wife is in charge of the business, and the husband is relatively easy to work. After returning home, he stays in and plays games and rarely goes outside to help.
The wife has to take care of the children, do housework, and look at the store. She is really too lazy to do her own tricks, so she discussed with her husband and told him not to stay in bed after get off work and go to the store to help her take a look.
On this day, the wife was going out to get things, so she asked her husband to look at the child and came back immediately. While playing games, my husband agreed casually.
Actually, the child is very well-behaved, basically there is no need to look at it. As long as he is placed on the crawling mat in the corner and plays by himself and blocks it with the sofa, he will not be able to climb out.
But the child played for a while and couldn't see his mother, so he started crying. My father was just concerned about playing games. He looked up at the child and said that there was no danger at all, so he continued playing games.
The child cried even harder when he saw no one paying attention to him. At this time, a passerby came in and wanted to buy a cup of coffee. When he happened to see this scene, he kindly reminded the young father to coax the child. The man finally felt willing to take his eyes off his phone, glanced at passers-by, rolled his eyes impatiently, as if he was blaming him for meddling in other people's business.
At this time, the wife came back and hurriedly picked up the child and started to coax him, and repeatedly explained something to passers-by. The husband did not feel that he was wrong and blamed his wife for coming back too late.
Passers-by took this scene and posted it online, which immediately aroused the attention and heated discussion among netizens.
comments
Some netizens commented that he made the child cry for so long, but he actually knew that he was wrong, but he still had to lose his temper when he saw his wife to hide his shamelessness.
Some netizens also commented that you should reflect on why there is only one husband. What's there to be nostalgic for such a man? He should have changed it long ago.
Some netizens also commented that even if such a man gets divorced, he will still say that you are not good, and will not reflect on his mistakes at all. He also thinks that you are looking for trouble and the child will not do anything when he cries.
Editor's opinion
Children are still young and need to get the care of their parents. Let the child cry until his voice is hoarse, and he still plays games regardless of the consequences. Such a father is more than just unqualified?
The man's behavior is not only his own problem, but also because his wife is indulging him. Don’t let him take care of the children just because he can’t take care of them. If he takes care of them, you have to supervise him to take care of them.
A man is addicted to mobile games and ignores the parent-child time with his children. When the child grows up, he wants to get close to the child, and the child has long been alienated. It is still necessary to distinguish which one is more important.
