Love is like a spring water that opens the ice gate, shocking the heart of the iron; love is like everything pouring into the heavy rain in the summer, making those who are eager to help feel sincere help.
Patience
In this society where everyone feels impetuous, it seems that what people lack the most is patience. Every day, when the mother talks about homework with her children, it will be in chaos, the mother will not be thankful, and the son will also feel annoyed by the mother; he will not like his husband anything, except quarrel or cold war, and he will go his separate ways; he will go to the company and confront customers, unable to bear it, causing customer loss; he will not be patient with his relatives, and eventually he will betray his relatives.
Patience is a quality, a strategy, a spirit, and an important symbol of personality maturity.
Tolerance
Everyone has an ulterior motive of secrets, and has their own desires, desires and difficult-to-speak needs. Therefore, if life continues, people must learn to be tolerant. Those who have hurt you are actually here to save you. In life, one inch wider heart and one meter wider road. Let go of one thought and be free. If you have a big heart, things will be small.
The highest state of life is tolerance, and the highest state of getting along is respect.
optimistic
A reporter interviewed Edison : "Mr. Edison, your current invention has failed ten thousand times. What do you think of these?" Edison said to the reporter in an elderly tone: "Young man, I have not failed ten thousand times. I just invented ten thousand methods that don't work." Optimistic people always see opportunities in difficulties.
If a person can always maintain a pure heart like a child, do things with an optimistic mood, treat others with a kind heart, and be bright and honest, his life will definitely be much happier than others.
Peace and peace
This long journey of life returns to the quietness, friendship and peace in the heart. Being able to speak without being impatient, be gentle, and be kind and firm is a wise man.
Control
The living standard is better, and there is overnutrition, so you need to control your diet; there are more entertainment places, there are more opportunities to relax, and there are more opportunities to slip away in time, so you need to control it; the family model of 421 will make your children lawless if you are not careful, so you need to control yourself, so you need to control your children, and unprincipled love becomes spoiled.
What sets people apart is restraint and self-discipline.
modest
physicist Einstein When he was alive, he was already a physicist with a prominent reputation and was deeply respected by people. In the statues of the world's greatest scholars set in the Riverside Church in New York, Einstein is the only one living person.
But he was not overwhelmed by honor and always maintained a humble quality. He felt incomprehensible about others treating him as an idol, and he was also very tired of the publicity and praise in newspapers.
Everything real and great is simple and humble.
Be trustworthy
Once Soong Ching Ling made an appointment with a primary school to visit primary school students, but when the agreed date came, it was raining heavily. The students all thought that Soong Ching Ling's grandmother would not come, but Soong Ching Ling still went to the appointment in the rain. This incident touched the students very much. Grandma Song also said, "You must keep your promise in life. I promised to come and see you. If you don't come, you will be disappointed!" Grandma Song's earnest words deeply touched the children.
Keeping trust is a self-restraint quality.
Responsibility
Children’s study when they go to school is his responsibility; it is his responsibility to defend their country when they grow up; when the country needs him, it is his responsibility to stand up unshirkable.
We are not born for ourselves, our country has given us the responsibilities we deserve.
Introspection
When I was young, Zeng Guofan had extremely poor self-control. From youth to old age, Zeng Guofan lived in constant self-reflection, constantly reflecting on his shortcomings in his diary every day and correcting his behavior.The various shortcomings of ordinary people are undoubtedly revealed in Zeng Guofan.
However, the reason why he was able to become Zeng Wenzheng and become a saint who was praised by later generations was that he could not only face his shortcomings, remind himself to correct it every day, but also give his diary to his teachers and friends for supervision. Although there are many words for self-criticism in the diary, he is not ashamed of it. He needs both courage and sincerity.
There is a saying: Only by working hard can one be excellent, and only by working hard and reflecting hard can one be excellent.
A person's personality is formed under the interaction of factors such as genetics, environment, education, etc. Different genetics, survival and educational environments form their own unique characteristics. The uniqueness of personality does not mean that individual differences between people will be very different. Personality is the quality of a person. A person with noble character will definitely be a winner in life.
