However, I found it to be particularly difficult to correct, and basically it cannot be corrected. You spend a lot of energy, but the effect may be very insignificant, and then the parents are exhausted and the whole family will be dragged down. So, why is autism increasing? In my opinion, this is the problem brought about by some incorrect psychology.
My psychology school, I and some psychologists believe that is actually the so-called "autism" or "Asenberg" that is not a disease. What is it? It is a personality, it is a more extreme introvert and sensitive personality. If this personality is too extreme, the child is too introverted and too sensitive, he will indeed have many difficulties in adapting to the environment.
For example, because they are too sensitive, others may find it very noisy in a normal environment where there is no problem. Because he is sensitive to hearing or his sense of smell, he will often smell a lot of unbearable smells, and this sensitivity makes his brain far more information that needs to be processed than others. Then if he doesn't know how to process, he will not process well, which will cause him to be under a lot of pressure. After the pressure was too great, he thought, uh, no, I want to hide in a more monotonous environment and let myself not be bothered. Then his behavior of hiding seems to be a symptom to ordinary people, but in fact it is not a symptom, but just a personality trait. Since it is not a disease, it is impossible for you to say that you can cure this disease.
So for so many years now, in the psychiatric community and the psychology community, inventing this therapy, looking for various reasons, and using various methods to treat it, there is no way to find a therapy that can cure it. Because it's not a disease at all.
So I think in principle, for the autism lineage, including the Assenberg lineage, we should not only think of ways to treat it. We actually might as well say how we can find ways to help these more sensitive, more vulnerable, and more introverted children adapt to society than ordinary people. We set our goal as this, and we will not ask him to live like an ordinary person. We can help them find a way to live a life that they feel more comfortable. If you do this, you may not have that much difficulty because you don’t want to move it back; for children, it will actually be more comfortable. A sentence that many autistic parents often want to say is that I hope he is like a normal child. But he is not an ordinary child himself, so why do you have to make him like an ordinary child?
If you allow him to be himself, maybe he is better than the usual child in some ways, right?
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