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Everyone will have different stages of inferiority complex , and there are many people who have been fighting for inferiority complex all their lives.

If we do not overcome our inferiority complex, we will miss many opportunities because of this: the people we like will not dare to confess; the things we like will not dare to fight for...

The same is true for me. I also missed a lot because of inferiority complex. It should have been a good experience.

share a few ways to overcome inferiority. I hope it can help you with inferiority:

1. Get rid of the flattering personality

People with inferiority often care too much about other people's vision; being able to get recognition from others is a very good thing, but if you use too deliberate methods to get recognition from others, you are actually grieving yourself.

Therefore, it is not advisable to please others. We must learn to love and appreciate ourselves.

sanmao once said: "It is difficult for people who do not appreciate themselves to be happy."

2. Discovering the importance of yourself

In the hearts of people with inferiority, there is often a very reasonable child living in their hearts. When we want to be proud, we come out to remind us: "The world is the same as everyone else. The work you do will do better, don't be complacent!"

Is this really true? No, we should respect ourselves. Every time we complete the work successfully, it is worth being proud of. After we put in our efforts, we should enjoy this full sense of accomplishment!

So, please allow yourself to enjoy success when you succeed, and accept failure when you fail!

3, encourage yourself to do what you like

I want to learn Guzheng ! Go to study, if you just cultivate interest, the tuition fee is not very expensive. If you are worried that others will laugh at you if you know it, then go and study secretly!

please yourself, do what you like , and then set one small goal after another for yourself, always give yourself a sense of accomplishment, constantly please yourself, and your self-confidence accumulates bit by bit.

4. Be brave and let yourself try a new style

On the street, I saw a beautiful woman with purple hair wearing a loose denim and a white navel-open T-shirt, which was very eye-catching. She looked at her from afar, and her every move was not as frivolous as she imagined, so she was quite flirtatious.

Think about it before, in school, I still envied those classmates who didn’t want to study and liked to dress up, but I was just worried about other people’s opinions!

So what about purple hair? The T-shaped one with a navel is also pretty good-looking. What do other people's eyes count as?

Make yourself braver, be appropriately crazy, and it will be worth your youth. Others are very busy, and no one cares about me who is sensitive and inferior!

Different periods have different worries, and inferiority will follow us throughout our lives. If we don’t know which moment, it will grow freely. Face it bravely, overcome inferiority, and win ourselves!