Since ancient times, our country has had its own persistence in some things, and so on etiquette. Chinese etiquette does not show romance from the West, it is implicit but romantic; Chinese etiquette does not show the openness from the West, it is low-key and gentle.
These characteristics show that our country's etiquette has a great feature - that is, respectful decent and respectful implicit. So in some occasions, we must also have a certain degree in controlling etiquette.
wine table is a place that can test your etiquette and upbringing. Because with the development of the times, many times, we drink and eat at a dining table, not because others miss you very much, but because in some places I need your help, but more to negotiate a business, promote a marriage, etc. At this time, you do not show etiquette and do not respect others. If you want to show it, you have no idea how to start.
And "toast word" is a very technical thing in the table etiquette. Many times, a wonderful toast word can be achieved through the atmosphere, but a bad toast word can also become the initiator of a bad atmosphere. So how should we learn to say toast word? In fact, this is not a difficult task. If you master these three elements, we can also avoid any difficulties in toasting in the future.
The first element is to master the degree of speaking
We only wear clothes with sizes. Similarly, we only feel comfortable when speaking with proportions. Many people know this, but the scale can be measured by a ruler, but the measure is not so easy to control.
So how to master the right measure when toasting with others? First of all, you have to understand some taboos of the other party , or things you don’t want to be mentioned in recent times. To give the simplest and straightforward example, you can’t bless a person’s life at a funeral. To put it bluntly, you don’t want to mention any pot. If someone is looking for a job, you wish others a promotion and a salary increase first. No one will think you are very humorous.
Secondly, you need to understand the occasion of speaking . Of course, many people understand this, but the difficulty lies in the control system. Everyone knows that when you say festive things on festive occasions, some people will make jokes on such occasions. For example, when the bride and groom toast, we will sincerely bless them. Occasionally, some people will ask when to give birth to a fat boy. This is an appropriate joke.
But some jokes are not. On the contrary, those jokes that do not care about other people's feelings are the best reasons for the cold. This shows that the degree of speaking is also very important.
The second element is that the toast word should be appropriately taken care of everyone on the table
When we toast, we can easily focus on people with higher status or other aspects, and often ignore others who come together at the table. This can easily cause unbalance in others' hearts . Even if you praise your leader at the table, in the eyes of colleagues, you are just a person who only likes to flatter and flatter.
In the workplace, although many major events, such as promotion and salary increase, are determined by the boss, we usually spend more time with colleagues and work in a group of people who are biased against ourselves, it is always uncomfortable. And you should also pay attention to skills when talking about the opening words. After all, for colleagues at a table, we cannot praise . We can be detailed and appropriate, and we must be neither humble nor arrogant. Such praise is easy to accept by others. is also a very useful element when toasting, especially when toasting people on a table.
The third element is that toast words cannot only pursue the powerful and powerful. Pay attention to the order of the elderly and the young and the orderly
This is the most basic and important point at a wine table. No matter how smooth a person is at the wine table, he does not know how to respect the elderly and blindly pursue the powerful and powerful, it directly reflects the low education of this person. A person with serious lack of respect cannot go far in the workplace.
So when toasting, we usually choose to start with the elderly, and the same is true when toasting words. When speaking, we can fully demonstrate respect for the elderly. Many times, The strictness of the elderly in respect of etiquette is beyond our imagination. At this time, it is easy to make the elderly happy, right?
When it comes to toasting words, we should not only pay attention to the right degree, but also make others feel comfortable. One is not advisable to pursue one, and one is not allowed to sing a high-profile person. is like the wine we drink. There is no need to slap the fat man to buy a bottle of wine that he can't afford, nor does it need to greed for cheapness to buy some inferior wine to make the best . For ordinary people, when treating guests, you can choose some cost-effective wines, such as steaming table Huisha wine and Jingyangchun .
steam platform back sand wine Now that new products of liquor are emerging one after another, consumers still choose to repurchase unlimitedly. Why can it still be favored by people? Because of its cost-effectiveness, this wine has a very high cost-effectiveness far exceeding its peers. However, in terms of price and capacity, a bottle of can have a quantity of 1,000 ml of , which directly reflects its high cost performance.
Moreover, the brewing process of this wine is the sand recovery process, which can also crush a lot of wine, especially inferior wine. Because the reason why inferior wine is inferior is their disrespect for the process. A bottle of inferior white wine can be blended with non-edible flavors or alcohol in a few minutes. A bottle of sand recovery wine requires the brewer's efforts for several years. Moreover, it is processed and purified for the Kunsha process that can be used for brewing for a year. It has not added several years of storage time. This shows how responsible this bottle of wine is to its own quality.
Jingyangchun wine In recent years, although it has not been in the forefront of the liquor market, it has been seeking steady progress over the years. is a famous wine in Shandong Province. When many liquors in Shandong are depressed one after another, not only gains a foothold, but also makes everyone familiar and liked. Therefore, this wine is very respectful to treat guests and drinks.
So I hope that next time you encounter such troubles, you can clear the clouds and see the sun and no longer get caught up with it. So today's article will end with you. Welcome to leave messages and comments, and I hope you like it.
