I remarried for half a year and wanted to divorce again. The 32-year-old woman said frankly: I didn’t treat me as a family at all.

With the fast-paced life of life, many people fall into marriage at one head, and leave the marriage because of a disagreement.

If there is a divorce, there will be a remarriage. After a failed marriage, when facing the next marriage, you will be extra cautious and rational, for fear that you have just jumped out of one pit, and then fall into another pit, let yourself Feeling emotional: Not as good as the previous marriage.

is like a netizen "Paper Pinwheel", remarried for half a year, because of her husband's disrespect, she was moved to divorce again.

I am a woman who has experienced two marriages. I married my ex-husband at the age of 25. The marriage lasted only six years because of emotional discord. After the divorce, I took my daughter and moved back to my natal family. The focus of my life was on children and At work, I never thought of remarrying.

In terms of appearance, I think it makes sense, plus I love to dress up, I know how to dress up. On the whole, it looks no worse than a girl in her early twenties. In terms of income, it is a bit above the middle in my hometown, and no better than working-class men. less.

Because of my temperate temperament, I can get along with anyone, so I am very popular outside of my home, and within three months of my divorce, my relatives and friends have met me and introduced people to me.

An unsatisfactory marriage, for a woman like me, is like the sky is falling. I decisively declined their kindness and said that I had no intention of remarrying.

The divorced woman, taking a child into and out of her natal house all day long, will inevitably be talked about by neighbors in the neighborhood, and even my mother will complain about me being selfish from time to time. I don't even discuss such a big divorce with my family in advance.

The gossip and the nagging of my parents flooded my brain like a single cycle every day. I couldn't help but get upset. I compromised and planned to remarry.

introduced through my aunt's cousin, I met my husband, who is two years younger than me. He is similar to me in all aspects. He is also divorced, but has no children. Z1z

talked for a while and liked me very much, and repeatedly expressed willingness to accept my daughter, parents approved, and daughter likes it, I seem to be hypocritical if I pick and choose.

After all, both parties are second marriages and don't want to be too ostentatious, so red tape is omitted, everything is kept simple, and a few tables are put on banquets. Amid the testimony and blessings of relatives and friends, even if the cutscene is over.

In the first three months after we got married, we had nothing to do with each other. My husband also discussed with me to have another child while I was young, and promised that even if I had a biological child, I would not favor one another, and treat my daughter slowly and compare my heart to each other, my husband. The request is not excessive, I nodded in agreement.

In the next few months, I can’t stand it anymore. My husband’s relatives swarmed into our lives. My husband’s ears were so soft that I could not see the elders begging him. Just say a few good things and play a few emotional cards. The request was unreasonable, and the husband immediately agreed.

was the son of his uncle’s family, and his cousin borrowed 50,000 yuan from us to buy a house. Although it was not much, my husband didn’t say hello to me. Later, my mother-in-law accidentally missed it. Know the whole story.

I asked my husband, do you treat me as a family? Husband

’s answer surprised me, “They are all relatives, there is nothing to discuss. Even if you know, you still have to borrow this money.”

makes sense, but this answer is really unpleasant, I didn’t. I care about it, but I didn't care about him. After two days of cold war, my husband apologized to me and even talked about it, which made me reconcile. It didn't take long for

to happen, and another thing that made me angry and annoyed.

In addition to the house we live in, my husband also has a two-bedroom school district room with the name of his in-laws. It is said that it has been vacant for several years. The eldest sister’s child is about to go to junior high school because it is close to the school. year. The same scene of

appeared again. My husband still agreed without discussing it with me. This is what I found in the chat records of their brothers and sisters, but they caught up with the extension of school. When I learned that their family had not moved in yet. .

is such a thing that makes people unacceptable. When I was angry, what I said naturally brought a bit of dissatisfaction, "Why do we let your sister live in our house? I don't want to do anything, how do you decide I will not refute , Should you at least respect me?" The husband of

disagrees, "What's wrong with her parents' house? Let's talk about it.We can't live now, and we're empty. "Z1z

I blamed my husband for not treating me as a family, and for being unclear about the importance. My husband blamed me for being unreasonable and arrogant. We had a big fight. This time, it was my husband who ignored me for a week. Three sentences. Two things,

, make me think that this looking considerate man is actually a person who does not care about his family and his wife. Even I think he is not as good as his ex-husband. Although the relationship is not harmonious, he is at least respectful. I, and my husband, are a completely self-assertive man. Z1z

originally thought that remarriage can regain happiness and give myself a comfortable support. Now it seems that the second marriage has just begun to be a mess, and the future life should be How do you live, is it because my marriage is not good, or the second marriage is so difficult? I remarried only half a year, and I have the idea of ​​divorce again.

Remarriage is a reorganization of the family and a renewal of feelings. If there is not enough emotional foundation, It is inevitable that you have to run in, understand and trust. Before remarrying,

always wants to regain happiness. The hopes placed in it are even higher than the first marriage. Once there is an obvious gap, regret will follow. It affects a person’s emotions. If

is always compared, over time, more and more grievances and dissatisfaction have accumulated, which leads to the idea of ​​divorce.

people who have experienced too many marriages have a different sensitivity to marriage than ordinary people A slight dissatisfaction may result in an excessive reaction.

can express dissatisfaction with the self-assertion of the partner, but it cannot be endless. The other party's concession is only temporary. If you want to solve the problem fundamentally, it is still very important to provide proper guidance. If necessary, let him take the initiative to realize that his behavior will bring disharmony to the family. The contradictions in

marriage can never be perfunctory by quarrels and cold words. Only by positive empathy can they be changed. The unhappiness disappears invisible.

A long and strong relationship is indispensable for running-in. With running-in, cooperation will be formed. Only a tacit cooperation will be on the road of marriage, without confusion or hesitation. What do you think?