Marriage is a major event in life, and both men and women need to carefully examine the other person's character. Especially for women, some people say: a woman’s marriage is equivalent to a second reincarnation, which shows that its importance is extraordinary.
If you meet a husband with good character, he can cover up the ups and downs of your life and enjoy a happy and stable life in this life.
If you meet a husband with a bad character, your life will likely be messy in the future, and it will be too late to regret it.
This woman was particularly touched by this matter. Especially recently, my father has become ill, and her husband's behavior has made her fully understand her husband's character. The woman said: I don't regret marrying him.
According to the woman, she and her husband were in a free relationship. When they were talking about marriage, their parents did not agree to the marriage, saying that they did not like this man.
The woman insisted on marrying him, and her parents could not resist the children, so they had to agree to let them get married.
After getting married, the man treated her very well. Although she didn't have much money, she was very interested in her wife . Cooking, doing housework, picking up and dropping off my wife to and from get off work, etc., is very attentive.
I am reluctant to buy flowers. When he sees others getting married, he will pick up the flowers and give them to his wife after he has packed them.
All of this shows that this man is a good husband, at least he cares about his wife and family.
Recently, my father-in-law was hospitalized after falling ill. His wife had to work and take care of her father. The pressure was so great that she had to insomnia recently and shed tears secretly.
If it were an ordinary person, the father-in-law would definitely hold a grudge in his heart when he opposed being with his wife. Not to mention going to the hospital to accompany him, it would be good if he could go to see him.
But the man did not do this, and he didn't even have such an idea.
When my husband saw his wife crying, he said to her with heartache: "Stop crying, you still have me..."
From then on, my husband has gone to take care of her father-in-law on her behalf, buying food, checking, paying fees, getting injections, and scrubbing her body, doing very carefully.
Patients who don’t understand the actual situation thought this was the old man’s son. When they knew that this was a son-in-law, they couldn’t help but give a thumbs up: A son-in-law is half a son, you are more reliable than your son!
A woman went to the hospital to change her husband and happened to see her husband scrub her father's body. She couldn't help but sigh: This is the man that my parents strongly opposed at the beginning. I married him desperately and did not choose the wrong choice. I don’t regret marrying him!
The man said: My wife married me desperately, and I couldn't let her lose. If I don’t come forward, my wife will be the one who ends up suffering.
The father-in-law opposed us being together because I had no money and he was afraid that his child would suffer losses. If I were to change me, I would also object. But it is not easy for others to raise their daughter, so we cannot ignore the grace of raising them for this.
Netizens said: Don’t put money first when choosing a man. Kindness and filial piety are more important than anything else.
Some netizens also said: I am willing to marry a husband even if he has no money. Not only is my husband not rich, he is not good to my parents. He has never called a phone call throughout the year, and nothing comes to his door during the holidays.
Some netizens also said: There is no good for no reason, and there will be no bad for no reason. If you can accept and understand the flowers he brought back from someone else's wedding, you must be able to understand him in life. People are mutual, you know how to be content, and he knows how to cherish.
I agree deeply.
A wife understands the difficulty of her husband, and her husband understands her wife's difficulties. This is how couples get along. Instead of focusing on the previous mistakes and unpleasantness.
