text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Remember that there is a sentence in the book " Island Bookstore ":
"In life, every bad thing is almost the result of improper timing; every good thing is the result of just right timing."
If you want to succeed in anything, seizing the timing is the key, and the same is true for feelings.
As the concept opens up, more and more women are starting to pursue love actively. But because women did not seize the good opportunity to pursue love, even if they were very proactive, they did not get a good result.
Many women blame the failure on their failure, but this is not the case.
The key to successfully flirting with a man is not how hard the woman works, nor how deep the woman loves her, but whether you have a good opportunity.
Good timing can enable women to achieve the best results in their efforts. Women who know how to seize the opportunity are often easier to succeed.
But when is the good time?
Research has found that in some specific times, men's inner defense is the easiest to break. As long as a woman seizes these opportunities, she may gain love.
Don’t blame Xiaojing for not reminding you, it’s a good time to flirt with men, don’t miss it.
The first good time: When a man is sick
When he is sick, men are very fragile. His fragility is not only in his body, but also in his heart.
At this time, although he still looked like he was not allowed to enter a stranger, he actually longed for someone to take care of him and warm him.
Once a man has a desire for warmth, this is a good time for a woman to flirt with him.
When a man is sick, a woman should seize the opportunity. Even if he says he doesn't want you to take care of him, you have to be gentle and considerate.
You can not only take the opportunity to show your cooking skills to a man, but also let him see your considerate side.
In the process of being taken care of by you, men will slowly feel the warmth you convey to him. Wrapped by warmth, the man's heart will naturally be opened to you.
No man can withstand a woman's gentle and considerate attack. It is often easier for a man to take care of him gently and considerately when he is sick.
This is a good time to flirt with men, don’t miss it stupidly.
The second good time: When a man is frustrated
In the long journey of life, men always look forward to the arrival of the day of success, but life is full of pitfalls, and men often have times of frustration.
When he was frustrated, the man was in a low mood. He was eager to find a window to vent and wanted someone to comfort him and affirm him.
The venting window for men can find it by themselves, but comfort and affirmation can only be given by others.
Since a man really hopes that someone can comfort and affirm him, you should seize this opportunity and use your own strength to soothe his frustrated heart.
You can stay by his side quietly so that he knows that even if he is not successful, someone is willing to walk with him.
You can also say more words to affirm him and praise him so that he can know that there are still people who appreciate him in this world.
Although these methods cannot completely let men out of the haze, they can make them feel better to a certain extent. If a man feels your intention, he will have a better attitude towards you.
Men will not be in a state of frustration all the time, so this opportunity is fleeting. Once you discover it, you have to seize it.
The third good time: When a man is hurt by love
Many women are unwilling to love to flirt with men at this time because women feel that the man has not forgotten his ex.
It turns out that when a man gets hurt, the effect of getting flirts with him is better than usual.
In this case, a man needs to be healed. As long as a woman can heal him with love, the possibility of getting him will be very high.
Men are different from women. They will not always be immersed in their past relationships. In order to get their lives back to the right way as soon as possible, they will try their best to divert their attention.
He may focus on his work or choose to restart a new relationship.
This is the best time for women. As long as you are firm enough, it is not difficult to get into a man.
When a man is hurt, he is suspected of taking advantage of the situation, but it is indeed a good opportunity. Women should not miss it.
Xiaojing Summary:
The key to successfully flirting with a man is actually a woman's grasp of the timing.
If the time for a woman to choose is exactly the time when a man’s inner defense is the strictest, then no matter how much effort the woman puts in, the final outcome will not be very beautiful.
If you want to successfully get a man, a woman needs to seize the good opportunity. Learn to flirt with men at this time, and the chances of success will be greater.
At these times, men are either fragile or are eager for the arrival of love. As long as you can satisfy him and let him feel the warmth, he will open his heart to you and give you a chance.
I hope you can understand that good times do not often exist. Once it happens, please hold it firmly and don’t wait until you miss it before regretting it.
