When the reader was in college, she always felt that it was quite cool to be single. One person had enough to eat and the whole family was not hungry. Moreover, she did not understand why some people would stay drunk all night and cry all day long because of a broken love. Later,

When the reader was in college, she always felt that it was quite cool to be single. One person had enough to eat and the whole family was not hungry. Moreover, she did not understand why some people would stay drunk all night and cry all day long because of a broken love.

Later, when she met someone she liked, and the relationship ended in vain, she discovered that she would be really sad when she fell out of love, and she would really shed tears.

There are some things that we have never experienced and have no sense of involvement, so we don’t understand why others feel that way when they experience these things.

And when we become the protagonist of the story, we will feel the same, and we will understand that some things really resonate with people emotions .

The happiness of marriage is similar, it is nothing more than the harmonious singing of pianos and songs, and the harmony of marriages. However, each unhappy marriage has its own misfortune.

Therefore, only women who have been hurt in marriage can easily see these three cruel truths.

All the disharmony in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is because of a husband who does nothing.

The TV series "Come on!" Lin Xiaohan in "Mom" has always been disliked by her mother-in-law because she is not highly educated and does not go out to work.

Her mother-in-law felt that she was not worthy of her son. In addition, her mother-in-law favored boys over girls and disliked Lin Xiaohan for not allowing her to have a grandson, so she disliked her both inside and outside.

She would blame Lin Xiaohan if the food was not cooked to taste;

In order to promote the second child, she even made a plan for the couple to have sex together;

also told Lin Xiaohan that it didn’t matter if the second child was a daughter, she could just have a third or fourth child. In her eyes, her daughter-in-law is nothing more than a reproductive tool, with no dignity at all.

At this time, the husband, as the head of the family, should step forward to protect his wife and make decisions for his wife.

However, the husband never asked about it. It’s not that he didn’t know that his wife had been wronged, but he couldn’t understand it clearly and didn’t want to get involved in these things.

So I pretended to be deaf and dumb, or wore headphones and pretended that I couldn't hear, thinking that I could get away with it.

Every time, Lin Xiaohan had the illusion that her husband could at least stand on her side and speak for herself.

But it was not until now that she discovered that her husband never considered her feelings, and that all the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world originated from husbands who did nothing.

When your self-worth increases, your voice in marriage will naturally not be too low.

There are always women who feel that beauty is the balancer in all relationships, because everyone has a love for beauty, and men are still highly visual. animal patients.

However, the writer Su Cen once said: "A person's attraction is formed by three things: appearance, spirit and soul. The more superficial the person, the more they pay attention to appearance; the more profound the person, the more they pay attention to the soul." ”

How long will it take to serve someone with sex?

The law of diminishing marginal utility of in psychology has long told us that no matter how good-looking a face is, it will become boring if it is seen too many times.

In a marriage, no matter how beautiful a woman’s skin is, it will become a habit in the eyes of men in a few years, and the initial thrill will be lost.

At this time, if a woman only has beauty but no inner support, then the marriage will face the seven-year itch and a crisis will occur.

Therefore, a smart woman will definitely focus her energy on improving her inner self.

For example, have certain learning skills, such as exercising to make yourself self-disciplined, such as improving your academic qualifications, etc.

In short, there is no eternal marriage, only couples who grow together.

Only when a woman continuously improves her own value can she consolidate her position in the relationship between the sexes.

Sometimes, anger can be a good way to maintain one's boundaries and interests

Just like the TV series "Come on!" Lin Xiaohan in "Mom", when her mother-in-law made things difficult for her at first, she always swallowed her anger and felt that she could not disobey her elders.

As long as you do well enough, one day, your mother-in-law will see how good you are and change your attitude.

However, she kept giving in, only for her mother-in-law to get worse.

In the end, Lin Xiaohan couldn't bear it anymore and broke up with her mother-in-law. The strange thing was that her previously arrogant mother-in-law became less arrogant after Lin Xiaohan lost her temper.

What does this mean? This shows that if we adhere to the principle of "suffering a loss is a blessing", we will not get the respect of our husband's family, but when we learn to consider ourselves and care about our own feelings, we can gain respect.

Inamori Kazuo once said: "When you are alive, you must be a kind-hearted person with an edge. When you are strong, you will be strong, when you are weak, you will be weak, when you are good, you will be good, and when you are evil, you will be evil. Fall out when you should. , so that people can see your bottom line clearly. "

The husband's family is not the natal family. Without the marriage relationship with the husband as the medium, we are really outsiders.

Don’t expect the other person to tolerate us like our own mother. For women, when necessary, anger is really a weapon to protect our interests.