If your mother asked you to give your brother money to buy a house, and clearly told you that your brother would not pay back the money, what would you think?
Seeing this question, I think many friends will think it is a joke. How can any parent make such a request?
What I want to say here is that such parents do exist, and there are quite a few such parents. If you don’t believe me, read on.
My brother-in-law is getting married, and my mother-in-law came to me to discuss money matters with my husband.
Since she and her husband Shen Feng made some money from business, Yang Xue felt that their life was really not as peaceful as before. When they had no money, no one who walked around with them, whether they were relatives or friends, was very frequent. Yang Xue knew in her heart that at that time, everyone was afraid that she and Shen Feng would ask them to borrow money.
But now that she and Shen Feng have money, those relatives who they didn't have much contact with before will come to visit the house every now and then. Friends who used to just chat occasionally will often come over to see the couple for dinner.
Yang Xue only now truly understands the truth that people are poor in the downtown area and no one knows them, and rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. What relatives value is not the affection between them, and what friends value is not the friendship between them. What they value is just the money in the hands of Yang Xue and Shen Feng. Although
felt disgusted, there was no way to completely break off these relationships. After all, it was impossible for the couple to live behind closed doors.
is like Shen Feng's younger brother Shen Hua, who once came to Shen Feng to find something to do in his and Yang Xue's company. After all, he was a biological brother. Although he knew that his brother was usually idle and could not help him much in the company, he was too embarrassed to refuse. Just when he was about to agree to his brother's request, Yang Xue came forward to reject Shen Hua's request.
From then on, Shen Hua hated his sister-in-law. Apart from meeting and chatting casually during the holidays, Shen Hua would choose to take a detour whenever he saw Yang Xue at other times. He didn't want to see Yang Xue. That face of snow.
Seeing that her brother-in-law had this attitude towards her, Yang Xue was not angry but felt pretty good. If Shen Hua really followed her every day asking for money, she really didn't know what this family would be like. .
But there are some things that cannot be avoided. Just when Yang Xue thought that his brother-in-law would not care about their family's money, Yang Xue's brother-in-law Shen Hua and her mother-in-law took the initiative to come to his house.
didn't talk too much after entering the house. Yang Xue's mother-in-law directly stated the purpose of her visit.
"Daughter-in-law, your brother and I came here today to discuss something with you two. Your brother has fallen in love with a girl. He has been chasing her for a long time and she has never agreed. This is not the case with that girl in the past two days. Suddenly she made a request, saying that as long as your brother buys a house in the county, she will agree to stay with your brother for a while. You two also know that your brother has no ability, so I want you to help your brother. Help him solve the house problem."
The old lady obviously knew that her son's words at home would not count, so she directly discussed the matter with her daughter-in-law Yang Xue.
You two make a lot of money, so it’s only natural that you help your brother.
Yang Xue felt a little angry when she heard that her mother-in-law made such a request so confidently.
"Mom, don't be reluctant to listen to what I say. In fact, what I say is the truth."
"Just say what you have to say. We have been together for so many years, so there is no need to hide it.""
"Mom, I'm not afraid that Shen Hua will be angry after hearing this. You said that he has been in the society for so many years after graduating from high school. He is now a young man in his mid-twenties. After all these years, does he have any savings? There's none? If you can’t afford to buy a house in full, can’t you even afford a down payment? "
" Oh, how can an unmarried boy save money? I think when you married my Xiaofeng, wasn't he also very poor? Aren't you two still living a prosperous life now? "
" Mom, you can't say that. Although Shen Feng said he had no money at the beginning, at least he insisted on starting his own business after graduating from college. Although he experienced many ups and downs, at least he worked hard with his own hands. There is a whole world, but Shen Hua is idle all day long and does not do his job. There is simply no comparison between the two brothers. To be honest, with Shen Hua like this, I really don't want to help him. "
" Oh, my good boy, you said that your father and I are so old, and now we can't help your brother even if we want to spend money. Isn’t it better to say that a sister-in-law is like a mother! If you don't help him at this time, who will help him? "
The old lady had just finished speaking, but before Yang Xue could take over his words, Shen Hua, who had been standing silently by the side, couldn't hold it in anymore.
"Yes, sister-in-law, although you are not much older than me, but I have always regarded you as an elder. This time I really had no choice, so I brought my mother to ask you to help me. Please just help me this time. "
"Brother, it's not that my sister-in-law doesn't want to help you. You said that as you are now, if I lend you the money, what will you give me back? Isn't my money going to waste? "
" What! Do you still plan to ask your brother to pay back this money? You said that you two make so much money, isn't it natural to help your brother? Why are you thinking about asking your brother to pay back the money before you take it out? "
Just after Yang Xue finished speaking, her mother-in-law immediately stood up from the sofa and questioned what Yang Xue said.
We earn money by our own ability, why should my brother let me Getting something for nothing?
Seeing that his mother and his wife were at war with each other, Shen Feng immediately stood up and stood in front of them. He was really afraid of the two most important women in his life. For this reason. Things started to happen.
Seeing her husband suddenly standing in front of her, Yang Xue was stunned for a moment, and then he immediately pushed away Shen Feng who was standing in front of her. At this moment, she was already affected by her mother-in-law's words. She was so angry that she had to compete with her mother-in-law today.
" Mom, since I married into the Shen family, I have always regarded you as my biological mother. I always thought you were a sensible person, but today you These words really opened my eyes to you. What's wrong with "
"? Am I wrong? Shouldn't brothers help each other? "
" Shen Feng and Shen Hua are brothers. If he is not yet a minor, you and my dad will no longer be able to raise him because of his age. Shen Feng and I can raise him for you, but now he has Now that he is an adult, he has the ability to make money on his own. If he asks us for help, isn't he just borrowing money from us? Have you ever heard of borrowing money and not paying it back? "
" Oh, you two have so much money now, do you still care about these ten or two hundred thousand? Give it directly to your brother, do you think he can forget you? "
" Don't you think this is funny? This money was earned hard by the two of us. Why should he, a person who idles around all day, get it for nothing? I still say the same thing, as long as he has worked hard since he entered society, it doesn't matter if I give him the money, but if he is like this now, he can't even think of taking a penny from me."
" If you don't want to borrow it, I won't. I don't believe that I won't be able to buy a house without you in this life? Can't get a wife? It's obvious that you two are stingy, but you still insist on speaking so highly of yourself that I feel ashamed for you! "
Shen Hua, who was standing opposite Yang Xue, suddenly said these words, then turned around and slammed the door and left. Yang Xue's mother-in-law saw her youngest son walking out angrily and hurriedly chased him out. It was almost When he reached the door, he turned his head and said to Shen Feng
"Xiao Feng, Xiao Feng!" Just pretend that I don’t have a son like you. As the head of the family, you don’t even dare to say a word. You have really forgotten your mother after marrying your daughter-in-law! "
The old lady slammed the door and left, leaving only Yang Xue and Shen Feng looking at each other. At this time, Yang Xue was really feeling emotional, what happened to this society? He was obviously coming to ask for help, why was he still so old? What about your anger? If you have some ability, why should you ask for help? Maybe the two of them will really be incompatible with each other in the future!
Friends, do you think Yang Xue is right or wrong to do this?
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