For example, worrying that divorce will have a negative psychological impact on the child; For example, considering that the partner remarries, the stepmother will not treat the child well; For example, other children know that their child is a single parent, reject him, laugh at him, etc.
There was once a couple who had been together since college. They were each other's first love. After more than ten years of marriage, their relationship has been good and they are a loving couple deeply admired by their relatives and friends. Even so, her husband still cheated on her when she was pregnant with her second child. At the time of the incident, Erbao was only 6 months old.
Like many men who betray their marriage, this man also apologized to his wife, admitted his mistakes, made a promise, and wanted to return to his family. Considering the relationship between the two for so many years and their two young children, the wife endured the pain in her heart and forgave her husband. But it wasn't long before she discovered that her husband and his lover had never broken up.
As a result, their marriage entered a "threesome" state. I'm afraid my two young children will be harmed by the divorce. If I don't divorce, I really can't do anything to my husband and the third party. Later this lady came to me and hoped that I could give her some help.
Faced with this situation, you only need to do these three points.
1. Make use of the resources at hand, such as your children. You can't bear to have two children.
As a father, of course he cannot bear to hurt his children. You can use his love for his two children and the importance of family in his heart to compete with women outside of marriage. Of course, if your parents-in-law already know him, you can also make good use of their support for you and let them help you separate the third party.
2. Reduce men’s psychological pressure. Many times, the reason why men do not return to their relatives is because the psychological burden is too heavy.
What you need to do at this time is to alleviate the guilt in his heart and make him feel that as long as he is willing to come back, this matter can be reversed, and both you and the child are willing to accept him again.
3. Release emotional dependence on third parties. Many men want fresh excitement when they are with a third party, but if they can still be together after a year or two, after the passion subsides, the man is likely to become emotionally dependent on her.
For example, I think she is gentle and sensible, I have something to say with her, I feel relaxed and happy being with her, etc. What you need to do at this time is to make him give up his emotional dependence on the third party and focus on you again. Otherwise, even if he comes back, he will betray again.
