Marriage is the tomb of love. Why do people who have experienced it feel this way? It may be that the mentality has changed before and after marriage, and the requirements for the other half have also changed. Before marriage, I want my girlfriend to dress up beautifully, but aft

Marriage is the tomb of love. Why do people who have been there feel this way? It may be that the mentality has changed before and after marriage, and the requirements for the other half have also changed.

Before marriage, I hope my girlfriend will dress up beautifully, but after marriage, I don’t want my wife to spend too much money on her appearance. Before marriage, my boyfriend was young and full of youth playing sports, but after marriage, I hope my husband can go out less and take care of the house more. So the two sides started an endless tug-of-war. Keep these five tips in mind to make your family life happier!

First: shut up, stop meaningless nagging, and instead give a sincere compliment every day

Just imagine, people around you can find your shining points every day and sincerely praise you, is it every day? Sweet? On the contrary, if you keep nagging about some small things that you have not done well from morning to night every day, the listeners will feel unhappy in their hearts. No one likes to be criticized day after day.

Second: Don’t try to use marriage to change the other person.

Love should be tolerance and acceptance from the heart, rather than asking the other person to change in the name of marriage. If you don't like his smoking and drinking before marriage, you should communicate in time to see if this habit can be changed, instead of asking your husband to quit smoking and drinking for the sake of the family after marriage. If you are unwilling to change, you are irresponsible.

Third: Don’t blame each other when you encounter problems.

When you encounter problems, don’t blame one party for the problem. A family is built by two people. No matter what the problem is, two people need to face it together. Don't blame the other party blindly, focus on the other party's mistakes, and focus on solving the problem. Only by not treating your partner as someone to vent your temper to, only if the two of you respect each other and treat each other politely can you go further!

Fourth: Pay attention to the small details that the other party cares about

Wives are more concerned about trivial things in life, such as whether socks are thrown around, whether clothes are put in the washing machine, whether used gadgets are returned to their original places, etc. But husbands generally think that these are trivial matters that are not worth mentioning and should not be taken seriously. Husbands want to have their own time and space, instead of playing the role of a perfect father and husband 24 hours a day. The wives cannot understand the thoughts of these "big boys".

Only by doing the trivial things that wives care about, giving husbands some private play time, and satisfying the small details that both parties care about, can we feel comfortable every day and make family life happier!