has been following a Korean drama for the past few days, " Romance is a separate volume appendix ". The drama stars Lee Na-young and Lee Jong-suk . Although it is a romantic drama, some of the plots reveal a surprising truth. Questions we have to think about: Is life really as simple as we think?
1. If you are out of touch with the times, don’t think it doesn’t matter.
The main reason why the heroine in the play cannot find a job is that the life she lives is separated from the lives of everyone, not only by time, but also by concepts. The heroine lost her original job because she became a full-time housewife after getting married. Now she has sold her house after divorcing her husband and has to find a job for the sake of her young daughter. Sadly, she has not worked for five years. , no company is willing to accept her, the reason is very consistent, she is out of touch with the times.
Don’t think it doesn’t matter or that it’s normal when you are out of touch with the times, but once you are out of touch with the times for a long time, it means you will lose a lot of opportunities.
Confucius said: "The passing away is like a man, never giving up day or night."
As time passes, not only people change, but also the times. Regardless of life or technology, in today's era, natural selection and survival of the fittest prevail. Being out of touch with the times implies that we will be washed away by the waves and eliminated by this era. As this era changes, we must also change accordingly. Adapting to the times is one of the keys to winning in the era.
Just like in marketing, the changes of the times have made online marketing the trend of the times. If you do not adapt to the times and stick to the old ways, you will lose a key to gaining a foothold in the times, and success will also slip away. We It will also be eliminated by the times.
As a person who has brought up a child alone until today, if I had not been exposed to the new era, I would not have thought of starting a self-media writing. This is keeping up with the times and giving myself more choices. The
era eliminates a generation in an instant. Adapting to the great era is not only about understanding this era, but also allowing us to find our own opportunities.
After the divorce, the heroine had no house to live in and was found to be living in the male protagonist's house
Second, life is really easy? Don't think of life as too simple.
If you are careful enough, you will find that few people around you understand what real life is.
People always think that it is easy to find a job, so they waste their time doing nothing; they always think that it is easy to make money, so they spend as much as they want without paying attention to financial management; they always think that doing anything is easy, so they think that they can succeed directly in whatever they do and even get something for nothing.
life is really not as simple as you think. As someone who has been on this road for half my life, I also want to say something to young people: life is difficult.
We might as well think about it, if life is really that simple, then why are so many college students today running into obstacles in finding a job? If life were really that easy, why would thousands of people struggle to make ends meet today? If life were that easy, most of today's family quarrels and divisions wouldn't be caused by it.
"Flowers bloom like fire, but also like loneliness." Life is not easy, and living a brilliant life is even more difficult. All high-rise buildings that lead to a successful life are built brick by brick with sweat and persistence. Only those who have truly experienced the pain of life will truly understand life, and still accept life, love life, and sing in return.
The female protagonist cannot find a job, breaks down in the rain and cries, meets the second male protagonist
The female protagonist is looking for a job
Third, it is really important for women to be financially independent!
I have heard a saying very early on: Financial independence means personal independence. I have always felt that this sentence is very correct. For me, having raised my daughter alone for so long, I understand how hard life can be! Understand better how important it is to be financially independent! So I think that as a woman, the most basic thing is to ensure that you are financially independent.
In this Korean drama, we might as well think about it, is it worth giving up a career because of family and marriage? While watching the drama, I noticed a comment: Each of us may become the heroine and live a miserable life after divorce, but in fact, not every one of us has the same care and love as the male protagonist. The younger brother of the heroine. Then I thought about it, why not? Will we all be as lucky as the heroine? In the early stage, the heroine quit her job because of her family and became a housewife wholeheartedly. However, after the divorce, she had to live in a house that was about to be demolished because she could not find a job. Fortunately, the heroine not only found a job in the later period , also worked hard to live on and had a great ending with the male protagonist.
But there is a saying that points out the difference between reality and TV dramas: The reason why TV dramas are TV dramas is that the plots in them may never happen in reality. So when we face a difficult situation like the heroine, what should we do? Could it be that we pray to God to give us a job and a good-looking actor who loves us to save us from the fire and water?
Let’s look at myself again. Since my divorce, I have raised my daughter alone. I am not as lucky as the heroine in the play. Over the years, I have worked in supermarket sales, , preschool teacher, and many other jobs to raise my daughter. , now it can be regarded as having a job that guarantees some basic income. So it is obvious that although finding a job is difficult, it is really important to have a stable job of your own to ensure your financial independence!
As a woman, the most important thing is to invest more in yourself when you are young, stick to a hobby and job to ensure your financial independence, and believe that what should come will always come. This is the most important.
The sugar in life may be all lies. But at any time, we should understand the times and keep up with the times; recognize the essence of life and still love life; be willing to invest in ourselves and ensure our financial independence, so that the bitterness of life can be turned into sweetness.
I believe that all the efforts of each of us are worthy of our shining self. We can finally knead the years into songs and create mountains and rivers! Come on! [Come on] [Come on]
