often says: A man is a man who can afford to take things and put them down.
In fact, once many boys fall in love, they can never get out.
On the surface, boys can remain calm, talk and laugh with friends, and even marry other girls and have children.
But there is always a person hidden in his heart, the first love he loved deeply when he first fell in love.
Even some boys will secretly go to the wedding venue to witness the love of their "ex-girlfriend". Only men know the pain of not being able to love.
In Linyi, Shandong, a man was sitting in front of a wedding car and was unwilling to leave no matter how hard he tried to persuade him.
The bride sitting in the car could recognize who the man was at a glance, but she still did not get out of the car. Because the bride knows that her love with her ex-boyfriend is a thing of the past.
Love cannot be forced.
The incident happened at a rural wedding in Linyi, Shandong Province. After receiving the bride, the groom was preparing to return.
Unexpectedly, an uninvited guest came and sat directly on the ground in the rain, blocking the wedding car and preventing the bride from leaving.
The groom and the best man thought this was a local custom. They would stop the wedding car to feel happy, ask for candy, cigarettes or red envelopes, and happily give gifts to the man.
After some questioning, he found out that the bridesmaid and the person seeing off the bride did not know the man at all. It was not customary for him to stop the wedding car, and it was not for the sake of happiness, but for another purpose.
It is reported that the man is the bride’s ex-boyfriend. He came to stop the marriage because he hoped that the bride would give him another chance and not get married like this.
The man and the bride have broken up for nearly 2 years. There is no entanglement between the two and they have very little contact. They live their own lives with each other.
For some unknown reason, the man thought he still had a chance and thought the bride was still waiting for him.
So, on the day of the woman’s wedding, the man couldn’t accept it, so the scene in front of him happened.
Unfortunately, the woman has become someone else's bride today, and she no longer has any feelings for her ex-boyfriend, and it is even less likely that she will regret the marriage and "elope" with him.
Some people don’t understand why the bride refuses to get out of the car?
It would be better to meet him and make him give up.
respects the bride's choice, but does not want to live up to the last hope of an "infatuated man". Meeting him and telling him his decision is a sign of respect for him.
In fact, if a man behaves in such an irrational manner, he himself knows that the probability of stopping the bride is very low.
just wants to see a girl's beautiful face again before she becomes "someone else's wife", or to see the most beautiful moment when she puts on a wedding dress.
Such a simple request may not seem excessive to outsiders.
Another point of view is that the man is making trouble unreasonably and acting rogue.
Since the two have broken up, whether the bride gets married or not has nothing to do with him. What kind of "identity" does he use to stop the marriage?
In other words, he does not have this qualification.
If you really can't let go of your sweetheart, you can go to the wedding venue to see her in her wedding dress and see her walk into the palace of happiness instead of stopping the wedding car.
Girls agree that the bride should not get off the car. In fact, such "ex-boyfriends" do not really love the bride, but are selfish and possessive.
If you really love someone, you should "wish her happiness" instead of causing trouble for her.
Let go completely and leave it to your husband to handle. The bride is right.
If the bride really gets off the bus, the most uncomfortable thing may be her husband. In full view of the public, he witnesses his bride and her ex-boyfriend meeting, chatting, and even hugging each other. He may become the laughing stock of everyone.
At this moment, the groom will inevitably question in his heart whether the two of them have really not let go, and his behavior is "taking love with a knife".
Moreover, the customs in many areas stipulate that the bride is not allowed to touch the ground before arriving at the hotel or groom's house. She must be carried or held by someone to get in and out of the wedding car.
Girls, don't be too naive and think that you can meet your ex-boyfriend before getting married. Doing so will only make the groom angry and distrustful.
Love needs a sharp knife to cut through the mess, and it is taboo to break the connection.
