There are many cruel realities in the real society, and most people can only see through them after they are 35 years old. If you could realize the following eight true traits of human nature a day earlier, your life would definitely go smoother and smoother.
1. Never make casual suggestions for the benefit of others.
When something is done, the other party will feel that it is their own ability and credit, and they will not give you a dime. But if something goes wrong, he will think of you.
people are all double standards. When they succeed, they feel that it is their own destiny that rewards their hard work; when they fail, they feel that it is the fault of others.
2. I would rather offend a villain than offend a person with a special personality and a small mind.
Enemies can also become allies when your interests align with those of the villain. But if you offend two hundred and five, he will fight against you wholeheartedly, even if he kills a thousand enemies and damages himself ten thousand, he can do it. Have you ever met such a person?
3. When asking for help, others say: This matter is a bit difficult to handle. The subtext is: the benefits you give are not worth it. I met an old classmate on the road and he said: I’ll treat you to dinner another day. The subtext is: It’s okay, let’s break up.
Being able to understand the subtext in other people's words is a sign of maturity.
4. The more people you know, the more you will understand that there are only a few people in this life who are worthy of your care and who care about you at the same time. This is your whole world.
Therefore, call your parents more often when you have free time. Although the time is very short each time, it does not mean that they don’t want to chat with you more. They are just worried that you are busy and that it will affect your work. And just a few minutes of phone calls can make parents happy all day long.
5. Most of adult friendships are relationships of interest.
When it’s time to talk about money, talk about money openly without hurting feelings at all. Don't just think about taking advantage of others. Friendship is like a bank. Taking advantage of others will only ruin your credit and make it difficult for you in the future.
6. Making mistakes is not scary. What is scary is being shameless and refusing to admit it after making a mistake.
In this way, others will think you are hopeless; your senior leaders will think you are helpless; your family will think you are stubborn. The more you dare not admit your mistakes, the more people around you who care about you will be disappointed in you.
7. Don’t interrupt other people’s speeches unless necessary. Otherwise, no matter how useful your point of view is, others will not listen to it.
The first rule of relationships is to make people feel good. If you can't give others respect, then why should others take you seriously?
8. Before you become rich, there is no need to show off your path to wealth to any outsiders.
Unless you can make money by sharing these experiences, you will appear to be so capable. Some relatives and friends ask you to take them with you. Do you want to take them with you? If you succeed, you have one more competitor; if you fail, you have one more acquaintance who complains about you and speaks ill of you. Besides, if you show off your money so much, aren't you afraid that others will ask you to borrow money and deliberately fail to pay it back? Learning to make a fortune silently is better than anything else.
How much have you understood these 8 items above?
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