It is no longer unusual for the elderly to remarry nowadays. There are also various dating programs on the market. Whether it is for young people or old people, as long as you want to fall in love, then everything is not a problem. Just say what you want. Whatever conditions you

Preface

It is no longer unusual for the elderly to remarry nowadays. There are also various dating programs on the market. Whether it is for young people or old people, as long as you want to fall in love, then everything is not a problem. Just tell us what you want and the matchmaker can help you find the right person.

But nowadays it is not so easy to find a satisfactory partner, and some women also work hard to find a rich wife. If a man's determination is not good, then a woman's random little actions will attract Men are favored by men, but men are not blind. They cannot see women’s tricks. Excessive overtures will not only fail to win the hearts of men, but will also cause them to dislike them. Next, let us take a look at this story.

Narrator: Uncle Liu is 70 years old

My surname is Liu and I am 70 years old. Not long after my wife passed away, my friends and my family advised me to find a new wife. I’m young, and it’s not fun to live alone. I know they are doing it for my own good, but I think it’s pretty good to live alone. I now have a pension of 5,000 a month, an 80-square-meter house, and I know how to cook. I can take care of my family, I am in good health, I can take care of myself, there is no need to find a wife.

All the friends around me quickly found new spouses after losing their spouses. They are living a good life. They come to my house every day to show off. They want to stimulate me to find a partner. No matter how they stimulate me, I am. Don’t be fooled, I wish them happiness if they live a happy life, but just leave it to me, I can live a good life alone.

Later, a female tenant came upstairs. Since she came, I have never had a good life. Her surname is Chen. She is 42 years old. She is still very young. She is about the same age as my daughter. When she first came here, she was very special. She came to chat with me every three days and gave me food. At first, I thought she was hospitable and treated everyone as a friend, so I didn’t think much about it. It would be nice to have someone by my side to chat with when I’m bored. Unfortunately, There were times when I was careless, and she had a purpose in approaching me.

She comes to my house for various reasons every day, and every time she comes, she doesn’t come empty-handed. She either brings the tea I like to drink, or buys some vegetables to cook at my place. She says that there is no gas in her house, and She just felt that eating alone was boring, so she came to my place and asked me to eat with her.

After getting along with her for a while, I also got to know her as a person, and the conditions for chatting were good. However, her ex-husband was an alcoholic and often beat her when he was drunk, so she couldn't accept it and divorced and moved out.

After hearing about her situation, I also felt that she was quite pitiful. She was only 42 years old and divorced her husband early. What should I do in the future? In my heart, I also regarded her as my friend. I would tell her anything, and she would often share her past things, which was quite interesting. We both live close to each other, so it would be nice if we could take care of each other.

Until one time, she told me that it was her birthday and she wanted to invite me to have a meal. I didn’t want to go, so I refused her. However, he said: “I haven’t celebrated my birthday in a long time, and it’s very uncomfortable to celebrate it alone.” I'm bored and not in a good mood, so just help me and relieve my boredom, okay?"

heard that she said that she was so aggrieved, and after thinking about it, she agreed. Even if she had a meal, it would not be a big deal. She had also helped me a lot. This time, I felt like returning her favor, so I told her Came to her house.

As soon as I opened the door, I was surprised by the scene in front of me, because she cooked a lot of dishes, and also got two candles and a bottle of red wine. It was as romantic as a couple going on a date. I didn't understand what she was thinking. Why? Although she felt strange in her heart, she didn't say anything. Then I asked her why she didn't invite her sisters to accompany her when she was bored on her birthday. I usually see her playing well with several sisters, so why didn't she invite her over for her birthday? It’s lively and lively together.

She said to me without changing her face: "You don't know something. They all have to accompany their husbands, and they are not free, so I don't want to disturb them, so I asked you to accompany me." She chatted with me At the same time, she also opened red wine and asked me to drink two glasses with her. I usually don’t like drinking, especially red wine. Red wine is drunk by women. I felt strange when I drank it. I was embarrassed to refuse, so I just dealt with it. I had a drink with her.

Actually, I am not very familiar with her, but she is very familiar with me unilaterally. Facing such a passionate woman, I am embarrassed to refuse her. After all, it is not good to be embarrassed if you are a neighbor. Then she side She would complain to me while drinking, telling me how painful her life was after the divorce, and telling me what a scumbag her ex-husband was. She would cry while drinking. I don’t know how to comfort a woman. I didn't know much about the family affairs, so I could only listen to her quietly without making any response.

Later, as we were talking, she said to me: "I think you are a very good man, much better than my heartless ex-husband. I have been very tired over the years, and I miss you so much." If I have someone to rely on, I really don’t want to live like this anymore.”

I didn’t think much about it at the time, so I told her: "Then you can find a wife. You are still so young, and you can definitely find a man who is better than your ex-husband."

She cried and said to me: "I have searched, but none of those men are good, and the economy is not good. If I stay with them, I will not live a life without worries about food and clothing. I want to I want to find a wife with good finances and a high pension, so that I can protect my future life."

After she said this, she glanced at me. At that moment, I finally understood her intention. The reason why she told me so much was because she wanted me. I have a pension and a house, so she wanted to She wanted to be with me just because I was rich and powerful, and she didn't care about my age. If she could be with me, she wouldn't have to work hard in her life. After reacting, she felt that she was too scheming.

She thought that if she cried miserably with me and complained about herself, I would feel sorry for her and fall in love with her. I cannot deny that she is good-looking and young, but I am not stupid. For a woman like her, I only I want to say that she is a little naive. She doesn't learn well at a young age, but she actually imitates others and gets something for nothing. Moreover, I can be her father at her age. She is too shameless.

Although I am old, I may be confused sometimes, but I can still distinguish clearly about this kind of thing. Although I am old, I am not confused. Little tricks like hers, if you meet others If so, you must have been beaten. You don't rely on your own efforts to fight and live a happy life, but you want to get something for nothing. Is there such a good thing? Everyone in the world doesn’t need to work hard anymore, just sit back and wait for pie to fall from the sky.

So I told her: "Don't think about things you shouldn't think about. If you want to live a good life, then work hard and struggle. Don't follow other people's example and find a rich man as your wife. Although I am old, But I'm not confused. Please respect yourself. The reason why I can come to eat with you is because I treat you as a friend, so I reward you with this face. Don't think that I will be deceived by your little tricks and will follow you. At the same time, I tell you, that is impossible. I hope that you will never do useless things in the past and in the future. If you have this time, you might as well improve yourself."

After saying these words to her, I left. I don’t know how she was doing afterwards, and I didn’t ask because I moved out and I didn’t want to deal with so many disputes. Since I refused, then It would be best if we never meet each other. I have no intention of finding a wife. If I wanted to, I wouldn’t find someone like her. If I don’t work hard, I would just think of finding a rich man and marry such a woman. Sooner or later you will be pissed to death if you go home, so there is no need.

Here I would like to say to those old people who live alone like me, if you want to find a wife, it is better to be more cautious. If you are too casual, you will regret it in your later years. You cannot be confused for a mere woman, otherwise in the end It would be difficult if it was all in vain.

Conclusion

Although the elderly who live alone cannot avoid loneliness and loneliness if they do not find a wife in their later years, there are also advantages to not looking for a wife, as it avoids some quarrels and family conflicts. Therefore, there are good and bad aspects to not looking for a wife. It depends on how you define it and how you choose it.