Pain
Everyone encounters many temptations, and these temptations will eventually develop into pain.
There are many temptations in life and they happen every day. The temptations of men and women can develop into painful consequences such as AIDS , separation of wives and families, and love-related murders; the temptations of getting rich through lottery and gambling can develop into painful consequences such as bankruptcies, robbery, and suicide; the temptations of drug abuse can develop into painful consequences. The body, mind, and economy are sucked dry like a vampire, ruining a lifetime. This is the notorious "pornography, gambling and drugs"!
There are also many daily temptations that spread to every corner of life, and the consequences are not light at all.
The temptation of pride, the temptation of money worship, the temptation of anger, the temptation of resentment, the temptation of complaining, the temptation of revenge, the temptation of violence, the temptation of hypocrisy, the temptation of lies, the temptation of guilt, the temptation of getting something for nothing, the temptation of muddling through, laziness The temptation of sex, the temptation of forcing, the temptation of sissy, the temptation of homosexuality, the temptation of despair and death, etc... you can grab a lot of them. A simple psychological temptation: I will retaliate against anyone who hinders my wish, and I can kill loyal people for the country, and turn my family upside down.
Temptation
Temptation is called temptation because it is very tempting and tempting, so it is difficult to resist. It is not something that can be overcome just by thinking about it.
The key to overcoming temptation and resolving crises is to manage yourself well and not to have any beginnings, because once you try at the beginning, it will be like falling into an abyss, and you may have no choice but to turn back.
You can't solve the problem even if you make up your mind, because there are many temptations that people simply can't resist. why? Because determination and willpower are still based on ourselves, and the self itself is very limited.
What to do? When temptation comes, there is a trump card that can avert danger with just a thought. At this time, you only need to think about the expectant eyes of your parents, the difficulties that the couple has endured over the years, and the lovely children who still need you to guide and care for them... think more about others stepping out of themselves, and this trap will pass. As long as
cannot get started, temptation will not be able to cause trouble.
The biggest enemy in the world is not the environment, not others, not the husband, not the wife, but yourself.
Relaxation and happiness
A person's biggest obstacle is himself, a person's biggest enemy is himself, and a person's biggest crisis is himself.
Confucius understood this, so he concluded that people are divided into two categories. Wise people look for their own faults and attack themselves, and confused people find faults in others and attack others. As the saying goes, "A gentleman seeks for himself, and a villain seeks for others." ".
The root of all ugliness, corruption, crisis and pain in people is self-interest. Once a person gets rid of his self-centeredness, learns to think about others, and learns to love others, all problems will be solved and he will be invincible in all kinds of things.
