1. Good women are always rare. The greatest success for a man in life is to have a virtuous wife to accompany him throughout his life. But in real life, most people marry women with mediocre qualifications. Therefore, if you marry a virtuous wife and have a virtuous wife to accom

1. Good women are always hard to come by.

The greatest success of a man’s life is to have a virtuous wife to accompany him throughout his life. But in real life, most people marry women with mediocre qualifications. Therefore, if you marry a virtuous wife and have a virtuous wife to accompany you throughout your life, it will be easier for a man to achieve happiness and success than for others.

used this conclusion to prove that marrying a foolish woman is the biggest failure in life for a man.

Lao Rui admitted that he married a stupid woman who was restless and too greedy. She was attracted by someone else's gentle flirtation. If she is a good woman, she is like a chaste ewe. As long as she does not stand properly, the ram will have no chance even if she turns ten thousand times.

Lao Rui is a peaceful man who works within the system and receives a good salary. He is not like some people who, after a successful career, become hot-headed, have a weak sense of self-restraint, and indulge themselves in behavior. They keep lovers by keeping Or he may have an extramarital affair to enrich his love life, only to be discovered by his wife, causing the marriage to break up and ultimately having to divide most of the family property.

Lao Rui is an honest person, and even if an honest person lies at the mercy of others, they still cannot avoid having their property divided.

Lao Rui was cheated on by his wife. After the cheating, Lao Rui couldn't think of anything else. I devote myself wholeheartedly to this family and feel sorry for my wife and children, but my wife just doesn't know how to cherish them. Women's cheating is different from men's. Men love because of sex, and women have sex because of love. If a man cheats physically, he doesn't have to cheat mentally, and his heart is still at home.

Women cheat both mentally and physically. Once they have physical intimacy with a man outside, they will never forget it for the rest of their lives. Lao Rui understands this. So he felt that it would be meaningless to continue in such a marriage.

For a man to be cuckolded or betrayed by his wife, it means that his dignity has been trampled on and his entire being has been denied by the woman. Lao Rui felt like he had been stabbed in the heart by his wife.

Lao Rui scolds women for not respecting themselves, but women say all kinds of things about Lao Rui. For a man she doesn't love, a woman can find ten thousand reasons to step on him. Then find the moral high ground for yourself to divide more property for yourself.

Lao Rui is a stupid person who never wins an argument. Lao Rui's clumsy mouth was unable to reply to his wife who had been planning for a long time. In order to get rid of his nightmare wife as soon as possible, Lao Rui was willing to compromise and give half of his property to his wife.

A good woman can always be found but not sought. If you don’t have that destiny, if you can’t find one, then you have to accept your fate. Lao Rui thought, whatever he owed his ex-wife in this life, he would pay her back in this life.

2. Rebuilding a family. I want to say that loving you is not easy.

After the divorce, Lao Rui did not dare to rebuild the family for a while. It would be too difficult to marry an unmarried woman, if the age is not the same, the old cow eats the young grass, the glory is temporary, wait for yourself When he gets older and his physiological needs are out of sync, women will dislike him and may cheat on him with other men. Wouldn't that be a waste of helping others raise women? Moreover, if you marry an unmarried woman and want to have children, Lao Rui must agree, otherwise it will be too selfish. I definitely don’t want to be angry with others, and I feel insecure. Lao Rui is middle-aged and still has children. Life is too tiring and stressful. Lao Rui doesn't want to be a father at an age when he can be a grandfather.

Lao Rui thought, if you marry someone for the second time, if you have a daughter, you should help others raise the daughter; if you have a son, you should help others raise the son. When my son is raised, he will probably look like a white-eyed wolf. In short, mutton doesn't stick to dog meat and it always feels awkward.

It would be feasible to marry someone who is infertile and childless, and then live together together, but where can I find such a suitable person? Find someone who is unemployed, and you must be fully responsible for her. If she is in the system, she may not be interested in coming to Lao Rui's house to be a free nanny. Divorce in middle age is a serious love disaster, and it is difficult to start a new relationship anyway.

No matter what, the remarriage life in the future may not be happier than the original life. In the original life, the children were shared by the husband and wife, and they loved the children together and worried about their growth together. After remarriage, the issue of raising children becomes much more complicated.

When Lao Rui thought of this, he hated his ex-wife. After their divorce, his ex-wife seamlessly connected and began to let herself go and stay with the stinky mistress. Lao Rui was left alone, feeling as if he had become a salted fish on the shore.

3. A woman who abandons her husband and children must have a miserable ending

Lao Rui is decades old and has seen too many endings of extramarital affairs around her. He firmly believes that his ex-wife and the mistress will not last long. He bet on that.

No matter how romantic the love is, men and women must eventually return to real life. Real life is just living together with daily necessities. The ex-wife now let the mistress's temporary romance ruin their marriage and make Lao Rui lose a lot of money. In fact, the only long-term relationships that men maintain are with husband and wife and friends, and absolutely no lovers (excluding normal lovers).

Smart women should remember one thing: Never be a lover for a married man, because it is difficult to have a good ending. Smart men should also remember not to have extramarital affairs. Extramarital affairs will only make men lose money and add to disasters.

Smart married men should also remember that extramarital affairs are the most "investment project" that will make you lose money. So when the stinky mistress gets along with his ex-wife for a long time and ruins his fortune and causes trouble, he will definitely regret it. My ex-wife will definitely regret it too.

The mistress made Lao Rui lose the biggest fortune in his life. Lao Rui also believed that the mistress would also lose money in the future. This is cause and effect. For someone like my ex-wife, only Nanqiang can make her obedient and honest.

However, Lao Rui decided that when his ex-wife hits the wall and wants to come back to remarry or ask her children to support her in old age, Lao Rui will not pay attention to her. It will make her roll as far as possible.

Laorui is honest, but he will always remember this account.