Introduction
Many elderly people with pensions choose to hire nannies in their old age, because they know that hiring a nanny will be more reliable, and hiring a nanny is a good choice for them.
But please learn to respect the nanny, don’t be too arrogant and domineering, and don’t think that the nanny is an inferior person. If you always look at the nanny in this way, then the nanny will not last long, because no one can I don’t want to lose my dignity. If a person doesn’t even have dignity in life, then what’s the point of living? So no matter who you are, you must respect others and give them dignity.
A 44-year-old sister works as a live-in nanny for an 85-year-old uncle. The eldest sister cries and complains: "The employer's demands are too much. No matter how high the salary is, I will resign and leave."
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44-year-old Sister Qiu
I am 44 years old this year. My surname is Qiu. My hometown is very poor. No one there has any ability. They are all hopeless and cannot make money. Because our place is very mountainous. There are some people who have never read a book, and there are also people who are very lazy and don’t want to work hard. They don’t think about anything except going to the fields to do farm work every day, because in their eyes, as long as they don’t starve to death, there is no need to go out to work hard, and there is no need to work like others every day. Worry about this and that day and night.
Because people there are more open-minded and don’t care about anything, so there is not a single rich person there.
Originally, I have been affected by this kind of influence before. When I grow up, I also want to stay in the countryside, because I also think that as long as I don’t starve to death, there is no need to work so hard, and I have no ability, so I want to work hard. A career was simply out of the question, so I had very little confidence at that time.
But later I learned that my father had an illness and passed away, and I realized that life is inseparable from money. At that time, my father passed away because he had no money for medical treatment. At that time, I was very sad, and I also understood that if I didn’t Money would really make life miserable. Later, I chose to work in the city. I wanted to change my family’s life through my own efforts, and at the same time I wanted to save more money. What’s the point? You don’t have to worry about not being able to get the money when you have an emergency.
But who knows, because I have no future and have never read a book, I have never been able to make money. Although I have found a job, the salary of this job is very low, only 1,500 per month. Okay, just now It’s just enough for your own use. It’s simply impossible to bring a good life to your family.
But even if I failed to make a career, I did not give up this job, because it took me a long time to find this job, so I cannot give up because of his low salary. If I really give up in the future , I will definitely not be able to find a job, because no company is willing to hire someone like me with no education?
After working for a few years, I got married. After getting married, my husband worked very hard because he always wanted to live a good life. Seeing my husband working hard makes me very happy because I am married to a very motivated man.
Later, after working hard for five years, my husband also started a career. I thought that when my husband got rich, he would be grateful to me and stay by his side and pay silently. However, I didn’t expect that he would dislike me, a poor wife. After he got rich, After that, I immediately filed for divorce. Just the day after the divorce, I immediately found a partner.
I was very disappointed with him at that moment. I didn’t expect this man to be such a scumbag. He immediately fell in love with another woman right after the divorce. I saw that he had already betrayed me during the marriage, but I didn’t notice it. I thought he was He is a very loyal man.
Since then, I can no longer believe in love, because men in this world are not good people, and they will become bad when they have money, so I will not fall in love again, and I will not let myself get hurt again.
At that time, in order to support my children, I had no choice but to return to work. However, since I chose to be a housewife after getting married, I had long been out of touch with society and had no work experience. No one in the factory was willing to Yes, at that moment I felt very helpless and didn’t know how to make money to support these two children. I wanted to send these two children to my ex-husband, but my ex-husband was busy talking to his current lover every day. , I simply don’t have time to take care of these two children, so I don’t feel comfortable leaving it to him.
Although my two children will suffer if they follow me, I will definitely find a way to earn money to support them, so that I can be considered a qualified mother.
later said that after much thought, I chose to be a nanny for others. Although this was my first time as a nanny for others, and I knew that being a nanny was very uncomfortable, I believed I could do it.
After becoming a nanny, I also made money. Although it was a bit hard work, I liked the job very much, so I planned to stick to the nanny career until the children got married and started a business.
Because of this job, my salary increases every year. If I persist until then, I won’t have to worry about running out of money, and I won’t have to worry about pension issues in my old age.
In a blink of an eye, I have been doing this job for many years. Over the years, I have brought a good life to the children through this job, and I can also afford to send them to college, so I think I am A man of great ability.
Although it is said that my job is not a high-level job, and I will be laughed at by others if I spread the news, I have never disliked it, because in my eyes, no matter what job, they are equal, and no one has the right to dislike it, because They all make money through their own hands, so there is no need to dislike each other, otherwise it will only make you lose value, because those who do not know how to respect others will not be liked by others, and they will not end well in the future.
Although many people look down on the job of nanny, over the years I have been working as a nanny, these employers have respected me quite a bit, and I feel very dignified working in their homes. That is why I have persisted for so long. of. Although I only want to make money, I will not give up my dignity for money, so I am a principled nanny.
At that time, I thought that I would always be able to meet nannies who respect me. Unexpectedly, two years ago, I met an employer who was very difficult to serve. His name was Uncle Bai. He was over eighty years old. He is a paralyzed old man. When I first went to his house to serve him, he was quite satisfied with me because I was very serious about my work and I cleaned his house completely on the first day I came here, so he thought I was a good person. nanny, and also offered me a high price to stay and take care of him.
At that time, I also chose to stay because of money. Although it was hard to be a live-in nanny for an old man, I was willing to do anything for money. But what I didn’t expect was that after two years of working, I chose Resign. The reason why I resigned is because I have suffered too many grievances in the past two years and the employer's demands have become more and more demanding. Although the employer is honest and reasonable on the surface, behind the scenes there is a very sinister and bad person. people.
and his usual requests are also unacceptable. He always thinks that he is my boss, so he is qualified to make various requests to me. Although I take his money, I have to satisfy him. He asked for it, but he asked for too many things, such as giving him a back rub, a shoulder squeeze, or washing his hair and feet. I have to shave him every other week, and I have to go to his children's house to help with housework on weekends. Usually when I'm at his house, I have to obey his arrangements. I have to do whatever he wants me to do. I have to get up at what time he tells me to get up. Many times he calls me at three or four in the morning. He got up and went to buy groceries. Originally, the market only opened at five or six o'clock, but he preferred to call at three or four o'clock because he woke up at that time. After he woke up, he didn't want people to have a good rest. I wake up and let me do this or that.
Only by torturing me like this will he be happy. What he really can't accept is that he asks me to change his diapers every day. There are differences between men and women, but he doesn't consider my feelings at all and always poops all over his body. , let me change it for him. Sometimes the sheets cannot be thrown away even if they are soiled, and I have to wash his hands clean.
I have refuted it many times. I can't do that much because I am just a nanny. All I have to do is serve him three meals a day. I also do housework, but he asks me to do everything, so I It's really unacceptable.
But he didn't feel that he was going too far at all. Instead, he felt that what he asked for was not too much.
Hearing what he said, I couldn't bear it anymore. If I continue like this, I will really go crazy, my workload will increase and my workload will become worse and worse. So for the sake of my health and my dignity, I I think it's better to resign and leave.
Although my monthly salary is over 10,000 yuan and I can't find such a high salary anywhere, I don't want to live such a miserable life because of money, so I have to escape from his house no matter what. After
left his home, I found a job with a lower salary. Although the salary was not high, the work was very easy. I didn’t have to meet other people’s requirements and I didn’t have to be treated like a slave by others, so I am very satisfied with my current job.
Conclusion
Even those who want to make money cannot accept too many demands from their employers. Once they find that their employers have too many demands, they will choose to resign or refute, because the nanny's profession itself is to wash and cook, and there is no obligation. I have done so much, so I hope the employer will understand.
