Marriage is not a child's play, especially for women. Only when you meet the right person can you be happy after marriage. Otherwise, if you meet someone unkind and have a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then every minute after marriage, It will be painful suffering, so don't choose to give in easily because of your age or the eyes of people around you, otherwise you will only waste your youth if you mispay your sincerity.
Writer Ni Kuang once said: People who carry calculators and constantly calculate, regardless of men or women, will not have true love. It is said that talking about money is too vulgar and can easily hurt feelings, but it is absolutely unacceptable to have no money in a marriage. After all, the economic foundation determines the superstructure. What's more, husband and wife are a community. If they can work hard for the family together, they can naturally go hand in hand. However, people's hearts are unpredictable. Some people are too selfish. Even their lover will continue to calculate and use themselves for immediate interests. As the center, they want to control the family's economic power, and hope to obtain more benefits from it. In the end, they push the other party to the edge, but in the end they often end up in vain.
Xinyu's marriage was like this. Her family background was not very good. She only had a high school education. It wasn't that her parents didn't let her study. It was just that she couldn't study and wanted to save money for her family, so she dropped out of school and worked. She worked in a factory, worked as a salesperson, and ran a street stall. It was not until she finally opened her own clothing store that her life got better.
Over the years, she spent all her energy and time on her career, so much so that she was still single after the marriageable age. Later, under the urging of her parents to get married, she also started going on a blind date, and then she met Yang Hao. It can be said that this The marriage was just about each getting what he wanted, without any emotional foundation. Yang Hao liked Xinyu because he made more money, and Xinyu liked his high education. The two thought they could complement each other, but after entering into the marriage, conflicts kept emerging. .
When she first got married, her mother-in-law asked Xinyu to hand over the bride price. She felt that women nowadays would bring back the bride price to supplement their family income after getting married. However, Xin Yu thought it was funny. She didn't care about it at the beginning, so the bride price was just as much. After paying 30,000 yuan, she came with a car. Now her mother-in-law had the nerve to ask her to hand over the bride price, but in order to avoid unnecessary conflicts, she still complied.
But as time went by, Xin Yu always felt that her husband's family looked down on her. Her mother-in-law thought that her daughter-in-law was too old and it was difficult to find a partner, so she would marry someone else if no one wanted her. In the final analysis, her son was too good, and Yang Hao felt that Xinyu's education was too low, so she denied all her efforts, thinking that she was lucky enough to achieve her current achievements. Therefore, when making any decision, she never discussed it with her wife, thinking that she didn't understand anything.
Until later, the husband and mother-in-law actually proposed to take over Xinyu's property, saying that it would be kept for her, but Xinyu decisively refused. When other people got married, the husband took the initiative to hand over his salary to his wife, but when it came to her, she actually had to return the bride price. , the property has to be kept by the mother-in-law, and they still pretend to be for their own good, and I don’t know where they get the sense of superiority.
Xinyu's refusal naturally aroused their dissatisfaction. In the days to come, her mother-in-law began to deliberately make things difficult, and her husband would belittle and suppress her. However, Xinyu was not someone to be trifled with, so she decisively filed for divorce. At this time Instead, the husband panicked. They didn't want to lose Xinyu's money tree, but Xinyu was too lazy to pay attention to them and insisted on getting a divorce. For her, if the marriage was unhappy, it would be better to stay single proudly.
Buffett once said: The most important decision in your life is who to marry. If you make a mistake in choosing a partner, you will lose a lot, and the loss is not only monetary. It is true that a good marriage will make people feel like a spring breeze, and it will make people feel warm and happy. However, if you meet an unkind person, your married life will only feel depressed and wronged. Rather than suffering in a wrong marriage, it is better to be brave. Stop losses promptly.
For women, marriage is their second life, so they need to treat it carefully, keep their eyes open, weigh the pros and cons before making the right choice. Don't choose to hate marriage just because of your age and the eyes of people around you. , otherwise once the three views of the other person are too different, it will be difficult to live the life you want. #emotion##marriage##emotional office#
